Which is better?

I rather actions than spoken words. Words can always be empty and meaningless if said without truth backing them up, but actions never lie

i guess shows u they love u is better because lots of people can say the words, but not necessarily meaning it. just saying it to give you what you want to hear. it is better that they show you they love you to proof they really love you.

Of course I will choose a partner who shows me how much he loves me, I still believe that actions speak louder than words. But then again, sometimes for the sake of really hearing that the person loves you, words can in a way supplement and validate the actions of love.

both would be nice. i think i'd choose the oine who shows me.

This sentence is so sweet that it can make a life sweet & lovely :)

According to me, I choose the person who loves me and never tell me that he/she loves me..... but shows their love in every activity they do for me.....

Love can be shown in so many ways, even just a look can say so much. The words I love you are just that....words. Sometimes the words can become a habit to say them and they can mean nothing coming from the person. I would much rather my husband show me he loves me than tell me.

well, action speaks louder than words, for me better to choose the one who loves me even without telling me that he loves me, rather than someone who always tell you that he loves u, yet it doesn't show to his actions. i am not atracted to a person who is so flowery in words, make so many promises, yet is not true enough to his words.

If I had to choose, it would be a partner who showed they loved me but never said it. The word love is throw around too often these days, and to me, saying 'I love you' is a really big deal. If someone was to say it to me all the time and not show how they love me then I'd end up not believing them. If someone was to show me they loved me, I wouldnt be too dissapointed they hadn't said it, I'd know they'd think it