Have you ever had a guy/girl do a complete turn around?

Canada
October 23, 2008 1:11pm CST
Here's the situation i was in a relationship with this guy. We met online and started talkin online and on the phone. After a few months we met in person. He was the sweetest guy. Every day he would come over when he was in town. He lived 2 hours from me. When he would come over he was sweet talked really nice was dressed great and clean shaven. He wouldnt mind wherever I went or what I did. He treated my two kids great. Ad if they were his own. After a few months he decided to stay with me for a night. Then it was two nights then a week. I kept telling him to go home but he wouldnt. It came to the point i was supportin him!!! AAHHH Then he did a complete turn around he was angry all the time. Fallowed me everywhere i went. Didnt like me talkin on the phone or having friends. It was like he was possisive over me. I had to end the relationship before it got to far. Now he is stalking me and harrassing me. have you ever had a boy/girl that was like that if so how did you deal with it?
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pradeepmittal
@pradeepmittal (7)
• India
23 Oct 08
hello dear, it is quite certain that he is getting over possesive for you. A feeling which is not a strange thing for a guy in such realtionships. Had it been otherway and had he doing meeting other girls and talking them in front of you or at the back of you it could be same feeling in you too. Or if he ignores you then you must be feeling bad. In fact at one time his possesiveness may be making you happy but now his over reaction may be hurting you. the only wrong thing happened is his dependency on you. And this is wrong on his part. This shows that he is making fun of things and trying to control you. I suggest you either to ignore him and ask him to leave you or otherwise try to make him feel that his behaviour is hurting you and if he want to live with you then he has to take care of you and your needs. with due concerns to your current job. take care