how to face your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend??
By lola1986
@lola1986 (7)
China
October 24, 2008 6:06am CST
you two used to be on intimate terms with each other,you might have shared the same towel,tasted the same cake,and he/she was just the whole world to you!!!and you even swore that you would marry nobody but him/her!!!......but what would happen after you broke up?? still be good friends or just pretend that you never see him/her before!!!well,it is always cruel to say hi to those who have hurt you,then what will you do to your ex-boyfriend of ex-girlfriend??
3 responses
@selece (2357)
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
Time heals all wounds. And you'll eventually get over him when you find someone better. When all is well and there is no more pain or bitterness, then I find no reason not to be good friends with her. Forgive ourselves, forgive others. Let go of the past, cherish the present, and work hard for the future.
@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
25 Oct 08
nothing. i would still face her like a friend and i have been doing so with my ex gfs. i am fine with it and they are too. we just meet up ocassionally to see how each other is coping. we would also help each other if we are in need of help. life is not only about relationship but also friendship and sometimes they can be a good listener for you.
@artibg (292)
• Bulgaria
25 Oct 08
Actually, i have a first hand story as they call it in UK. I broke up with my girlfriend months ago and i used to think the same things you wrote about- that i love her more than everything, that she's the whole world to me and so on. But after we split up she just decided it's better to pretend that I'm not existing anymore and since then we haven't exchanged even a single word. Sounds really stupid after all those things we have experienced together. I have tried to make a simple conversation several times but she would just walk away imperturbably. Her behavior really hurts me but it seems that she doesn't care a lot
@lola1986 (7)
• China
25 Oct 08
i am so sorry about your heartbreaking story,and hope you are better now!!!!as a girl,i did something like that,and now i regret all my wrong deed...maybe girls are always kind of small and stingy,our behavior is sort of extreme......and i am sure time heals all wounds and one day you will treat it at ease!!!hope you find a better girl and be happy!!!