Q to mothers of twins!

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Hey there, mommies! Having fun with ur twinies, r ya? ^^ well, surely hope so :P I know they can be quite a lot to handle since I am one, lol! Anyways, on to the main topic. I have this doctor friend of mine (well, doctor-to-be anyways), and we were chatting bout things and it just came up that the reason why I am the way I am because during pregnancy, it is often the case that one of the twins gets most of the food and is healthier and stronger, while the other gets deprived and grows weaker, making them live their lives with a somewhat weak and sickly body. I just wanted to know, if you have noticed that about your kids (god forbid), what is your reaction? How do you treat this poor sickly child? Do you give him/her more attention than the other? Or is there no significant interest/care?? I just happened to be the sickly one, and have lived the past seventeen and a half years of my life always feeling tired, weak, often getting sick and easily too, and enduring agaist god knows how many allergies.. all because my twiny was too greedy for food and I didn't get enough while still in the pregnancy stage _ but despite of all of that, I don't see any signs of care from my mom, not back then and not now when it's getting even worse. Both her and the rest of my family are just contributing to making it even worse and harder on me rather than help me out, actually... so I just wanted to know, are the other kids luckier than me with caring and sensitive moms or if you're all just don't notice if not told clearly??