I love my boyfriend but i dont think he is the one! HELP?
By msfallon1230
@msfallon1230 (27)
United States
October 24, 2008 5:27pm CST
I wa in a relationship for 4.5 years and also have a beautiful 1 year daughter with him but i dont think he is the one. We fuss all the time and i feel like i can have better. It sometimes when i think i should just stay with him because he knows me in and out but then its times when i feel whole life would be nothing but arguring. Help? what should i do? ANy similar stories
4 responses
@Emilyzhu (147)
• China
25 Oct 08
Perssonally speaking ,I think the argue is very common to family .You could not judge your love by the times you both quarreled .Since you say he knows you in and out ,he must be your Mr Right .Try to find out the true reason you fight for ,then cure them .Exchang your ideas in your heart frequently .If you think about he is not fit to you you can only feel sad and painful ,and the situation between you both will get worse .
@msfallon1230 (27)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Thanks for your infomation...im sure he may be mr. right if we try a little harder
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
24 Oct 08
If your husband knows you in and out then he might be the man for you. fighting is common to couples. maybe you feel like giving up coz you're angry at him. its seldom that you find someone who knows the whole you and still stick by you no matter what
@msfallon1230 (27)
• United States
24 Oct 08
I thinki should but its like when i mad i dont want anything to do with him. And i feel in a relationship although youre mad you should still feel love for that person
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
I think not all relationship is perfect. It's how we handle it and face it. Think it one thousand times or more. It's to hard to see relationship that is serious and committed now a days. My gf had been into a relationship for 16 years and in the end they broke up with 2 beautiful daughters. She was telling me she wasn't happy about the relationship but she just rather sacrifice that time her happiness just to make the family intact, but it wasn't that easyeveryday they argue and really fight alot. It was hell for her. She got tired of understanding everything. She prayed hard for the decision if they should stay together or not. God answered her after 16 years. He left her and went back to her mother. She was telling me it's not the loving that she regreted but the time that is wasted. God be with you! Have a nice day!
@CocoChic (1)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I think you should write a list, things you like and things you don't like about your relationship and that should give you a idea about what would be best. I really don't know your background with him, so I don't think it is fair for me to comment and possibly push you decision the "wrong" way. You have been together for a good amount of time, maybe your arguments aren't as bad as it seems through your eyes. Have you ever considered counseling (just a thought). One last comment, if you really doubt you relationsip but your sticking in there for your daughter as good as seems the arguments will hurt her more in the long run when she is older. I am sure your man loves is daughter and whether or not you guys stay together he will be in her life. The choice is yours, Good Luck.