reminiscing the past
By Shar1979
@Shar1979 (2722)
United States
October 24, 2008 10:21pm CST
What's the worst thing that your ex boyfriend/girlfriend or ex husband/wife has ever done to you that until now it still hurt you in some way even if you have somehow forgot it as time passed by?
Do you still hate him or her? Have you totally forgiven that person?
3 responses
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
I guess, I have forgotten the person but the worst is the fact that whenever you remember the person you just could not forget the kind of pain he or she has given you and though things are healed still, you kind of feel traumatized about the experience despite the forgiveness.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
ouch this is a nice and a painful discussion. i am a single mom of four children and i left my husband and tag our kids along with me. he does not know where we are (or he does not really care). he is a very abusive person that i only found out after getting married. i tried everything and anything to make it right but a relationship is not going to work if there is only one person working hard for it. do i still hate him? yes! i have never seen him yet and i can not say for now if i have forgiven him. i experience hell with him so it is not that easy to say that i have forgiven him. maybe when we meet again that is the only time i can say that i have forgiven him already
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
25 Oct 08
i'm sorry and feel bad for what has happened to you. i didnt mean any harm when i made this topic. i am glad that you are out of that kind of horrible situation that you have had with your husband. i hope that someday you will completely forget about it and move on with your life. forgetting a painful memory isnt really that easy to forget
