Do life change you or you change your life?

Hey,buddy,this topic I sincerely want to talk about .First ,I think we can change the life if we want to ,we live in the world ,we happy ,we sad ,all of this called life ,we have the ability to chose the style of our life .Life also can change us ,but I think it can not beyond the fact that we should change the life rather than it change us !

The spirit of the life should be "we change the life". However, many a times the hard fact of the life is that " the life changes us". I do not mean that we should be passivist about the life. Infact the optimism of the man keep him doing better and better things in the life. Inspite of knowing that certain things are out of his countrol, man tries to gain optimum control over such things and many a times gets success. That is the way life goes.

Hi there! In my lifetime I have never lost the idea that it is I who decides what my life would be. But there were times when I just follow the flow where life leads me. I guess those where the times when I was depressed and tired of the decision makings in my life. I also believe that for every action there is an equal reaction. So whatever I do now is what I will become tomorrow that's why I try to make good decisions today than have regrets tomorrow. Ciao!

The subject is so difficult to work out,as the saying goes that life is in your own hands,but sometimes it is wrong,life will tell you a joke,and you can do nothing about it.