Is it bad to be jealous?

Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. If you trust your lover completely, then you should not be jealous. Being jealous does show that there is not a lot of trust, and the jealous person feels that their partner would go with someone else given the chance.

For me feeling jealous is a normal. I you really love a person or your partner its normal that you'll feel jealous.. Its not a lack of trust but it represent that you really love your partner..,,,, Sometimes when a man and a girl is together yes theirs a tendency that they will be develop.. But I'm not saying that it always happened...:this situation was happened to me... when my Boyfriend was alone in there home, a lady friend of us who has a secret love to my BF go to my BF's house after an hour something happened..... A Betrayal...

it is not bad but we should not let jealousy affect our relationship and drive our partner away from us. cause many times because of jealousy we do so many things that will make our partner suffocated and that will be bad for the relationship. we should learn how to handle our jealousy and the right response. and i admin that jealousy stems from our lack of trust whether there is basis for our mstrust or not. i am jealous person . it is one hard feeling when we see our partner giving attention or admire some one else. we all want the love and attention and admiration be exclusive to us because we are threatened when our partner begins to admin other people. but i think that admiration will not ruin relationship as long as your partner loves you more, your partner will not let that admiration or sometems little attraction to other people take away your partner's love and fidelity or faithfulness to you.

I hate to admit that I disagree with your views about jealousy. It's far from the definition of love. Jealousy is inclined to or troubled by suspicions or fears of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc. as in love or aims. I don't think being jealous a sign of love towards your girl, but instead it is aimed at some guy who's got the hots for her and she may likely find it tempting to flirt with him, for example. In fact jealousy is not included in the definition of love. The feeling is resentment, sometimes you are suspiciously watchful of your girl's faithfulness and fidelity and may later lead to distrust. Jealousy can kill too.

iam very jealous and i have to watch myself when iam this way i too thought it was a sign of love but it,s not jealouy means you are insercure with who you are.iam dealing with my jealouy and try not to let it show so much these day and i feel better with dealing with my mate now that i have it under control.

nO! iT isN't bAd tO be jeaLous.. BUT iF it is tOo mucH, yOu're bEing tOo pOssEssive.. iT mEans yOu dOn't tRust wiTh Each oTher! jeaLousy is jusT a nOrmaL FeeLiNg.. tOo Much jeaLousy cAn cAuse bReak ups! sO, iF yOu reaLLy Love yOur pArtNer, yOu sHouLd Find a wAys nOt tO mAke hiM/hEr jeaLous.. =]

Jealousy can kill a relationship really quick. I went with a guy who got wound up over every guy I talked to. I work in the public and know many people. I have never cheated on anyone in my life and I found his constant suspicions to be insulting. It got to the point where it seemed more of our time was spent with me trying to reassure him than we spent just enjoying each other. The jealousy thing gets really old really quick. To me it didn't seem like love. Rather he appeared extremely insecure and paranoid. It was a real turn off and I ended up breaking it off with him to end all his worries.

Not being jealous means you don't love your partner. But being "over" jealous is a sign of lack of trust and the worse thing, possessiveness. Being jealous, should have its limits. It needs to be talked over and cleared out to avoid losing trust for each other.

i dont think its bad since its normal to everyone. i mean, who says that he was never jealous all his life? but there should be limitations. if you go beyond the borderline, then its not just jealousy but it is already an obsession. jealousy can be linked to any other behavior specially if its over used. i do feel jealous at times, i will be a bid hypocrite if i will claim that im not.

I think being jealous is not right. The person who you are jealous of is better than you thats why you get jealous. I think you should try to be like him/her rather than being jealous and thinking negative about them. Make yourself a person who people be jealous off.

My husband is a very jealous man. To a point, his jealousy is flattering, but there is defiantely a point when it is just too much. If he even thinks some other guy is glancing at me, he gets angry. I quit wearing make-up and dressing nicer because he thinks I do itt for attention, rather than the real reason, which is simply that it makes me feel better about myself to primp a little now and then. His jealousy goes way beyond, and shows his true insecurities. By now, he should know that I love him and would not stray, but he has insecurity issues as well as jealousy issues that go back to his early childhood. I would rather give up my primping to make him feel better that to make him jealous and insecure in any way. He is so jealous that he does't even allow his own brothers to be alone in the same room as me, and they are strictly not allowed to be at my house if he is not home. As I said, jealousy, to a point, can be flattering, but there is a limit.

Actually i think a little jealousy is ok...as a woman i like when my man gets jealous but i also want him to be confident that he knows i only want him...i dont necessar think ts alck of trust when him or her is jealous...more towards there confidence in that person finding someone better...men women like jealous men although they wont admit it all the time

Hai Friend I agree with you. Sometimes jealousy is an emotion experienced by those who perceive at another person is giving something that they want to someone else(typically attention, love or affection).

I think in some time jealousness is the way to advance the love between you and your girlfriend.But too much jealousness can also break your intimate relationship to some extent.So the most improtant thing you should do is to control it by yourselves.For example,when your lover goes out with other males,you can show your jealousness in front of her for some minutes but not all the time.Then your lover can feel your strong feeling of love in this fashion.

Like you, I don't think jeolousy in relationships is wrong or bad. For me, I think it is what jeolousy can cause a person to do that determines whether the action is right or wrong. As such, as long as a person knows how to handle jeolousy in a positive manner, jeolousy is not going to be a big problem after all. But if jeoulousy is the start of a spate of arguments, then the jeolousy is bad no matter what angle you look at it from. While I agree with you that jeolousy is a sign of love, I also tend to agree that jeoulousy can be a sign of lack of trust too between partners. As long as one partner can affirm the other that there is no affair going on, the other partner should trust the words of the former. But of course, the former shouldn't be lying....as lying defeats all trust, and will most likely end the relationship prematurely....

For me being jealous with someone is a natural feeling. The only thing that is not good in being jealous is the bad reaction. I mean if you get angry because your jealous and starting to get mad with your love one, starting to give limits and over reacting. Your love one will feel uncomfortable and she/he will feel that you doesn't trust him anymore. If you're getting jealous, so be it. Just don't over react. Don't show him/her your animal attitude. Just be quiet of just tell her/him that you're jealous in a nice way. I think being jealous is sweet if and ony if the man that is inlove with me can handle it in a nice way. Thant's all....

its not bad to be jealous..i agree with your statement that its a sign of love..it does not necessarily mean that your insecure so youll get jealous..it simply means that you value someone more than enough that it came out being so into that someone..lol

I think it is very normal to be jealous, It become bad on how you reacted in the situation. If you do something not good out of jealousy it becomes bad but if you just tell the person you like or love that you are jealous of what he/she did i to you guess it there is nothing wrong with it. Its all about your reaction that makes it bad not the word itself.

I have read in books on phylosofy, I am not sure whether or not I spelled this big word correctly, that jealousy is a negative emotion. It seems to me that jealousy is closely linked with fear and of course this is also a negative emotion. I myself would not want to live with these emotions as they would harm my attitude toward feelings and therefore would walk around being negative. This is what works for me although I would not want to say that is the way that you are or the way that you feel towards jealousy. Yes, I understand in a sense that this could be a sign of love although you should not want to fan the flames of this as it could end up being a disappointment to you and your partner. Crocket.

Jealousy is a common emotion.It is there in every human being with flesh and blood.If it crosses a certain limit it leads to crimes and mental disorders.Jealosy means wanting to have what others have.Usually people say women show jealous feelings.Men are also equally jealous.Some men are jealous of their more sucessful wifes ,of her friends and parents.In families sibling rivelry is common.A wife can be jealous of her husbands female collegue.In friends also we can find jealousy.It is common and nothing wrong in it.A very broad mind is needed to decrease jealous feelings.If we try we can reach a stage of nonjealousy.