who can tell me how you deal with gossips on you ?

@Emilyzhu (147)
China
October 25, 2008 5:17am CST
I can't believe that someone can make gossips so easily . And I have never supposed that I would get any gossips on me .I was very very surprised and ,how to say ,deeply painful to hear some gossips on me .People can be so powerful to make them seem so true on me .I am just a graduate from my college ,working for a short time .Why should they treat me like this ?I'm almost crazy when I heard of them the first time .What should I do ?After thinking a lot ,I calmed myself down and chose to keep silence .Since I am innocent ,why do I care about other's gossips ? Am I right ?What will you do if you meet the same problem ? Who can help me ?
1 response
fwangaa
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
25 Oct 08
i should do the things to exchange the good impres - yes i must do that
i often met this situation,i think you should do somethings to receive the favorable impression of the people around you, for example to sweep floor,to take the water,or somether things,or you can take some person to the restraunt to have a meat,that also can take many good words for you
Emilyzhu
@Emilyzhu (147)
• China
25 Oct 08
Maybe you are right ,but it is really not my fault .And I thought they are not worth of that treat as you said .Thanks all the same .