is it better to know that you have been loved rather than not loving at all?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
October 25, 2008 11:11pm CST
most people search for that one true love.it,s better to love and going though life not loving at all.looking for that one love that make you feel happy and you want to spend the rest of your life with that person.it,s better to have love than never loved at all.
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5 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 08
hi annji,
i totally agree, this is how i felt when my friends advised me to leave my boyfriend because he was cruel to me by not marrying me for 14 years ... i knew he loved me, yes my love ife was not full with flowers and chocolates , there were fights (real fist fight), arguments, tears .. but those happy moments were ther too ..
i finally married him, he is not perfect husband, but when i have problems in office he listens to my sad story, when it rains he calls me if i want him to pick me up ...
yesterday ... he got up early and bought me noodles and left it beside my bed for the sweet aroma to wake me up, he did not want to eat until i got up and shared it with him .. (believe me the Chinese Curry Noodle soup smells good)
i have my love ... it has its short comings but at least i have it, most of the friends who advised me are still single as they did not know how to appreciate those little lovely moments and harp on some stupid rights
cheers
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
26 Oct 08
Hi there annji. I think it is better to know that you have been loved rather that not loving at all, but it is also more painfully if you don't have it anymore. There is a great saying by a famous man: "A man who did not love at all, did not live at all"
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
27 Oct 08
i think it,s better to know in your life time that you have loved and to not have loved at all.how can it be painful if you never loved are you mean when you had it for some reason you don,t have it anymore.i feel you can,t miss what you haven,t had before.
@Love_Lorn_66 (11)
• Singapore
30 Oct 08
Dear Ann :
Elitess has one small ....... but good point there ........
i am speaking from my own personal experiences alone.... i think it is sometimes harder and more painful to actually love someone rather than never to fall for someone at all. I sometimes wish that the mistakes i made in love were not made at all. it's not so bad now ... but sometimes they come back to saddened me.
i have had 3 bad experiences so far ... and i have to tell you ... i dunno if i will ever be so enthusiastic about finding so called "true love" again ... i don't even know if it exists at all now.
it is a good experience to have ..... but it cuts both ways .... i just wish that i had some one earlier in my life to tell me all these ... i had to discover it the hard way. :) :)
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@eddie42 (270)
• United States
26 Oct 08
i rather to have loved and not have loved at all.not to have loved at all is like not living at all everyone should want to experience love at least once in there life to love is like nothing else i can compare to it.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
27 Oct 08
it,s a strong feeling you have for that person and you would do anything for that person.i think to experience love at least once if you never love again.
@nadooa247 (1096)
• United States
13 Nov 08
To have loved and lost is better than never having loved at all...
It is more than a little painful, it's devastating to find that love to feel it to be lifted high in the skies by it... and lose it subsequently come crashing down. But, at least a person knows the feeling and will always live with knowing that feeling. I think it makes a person realize that they deserve to be treated with love, and respect. It SHOULD make a person treat their partner with care and affection.
