whom will u choose the new lover or the present?

I will definetely choose my present relationship.We been through a lot of things already and we were able to triump it all,so i have no intentions of living him for another guy or for anything else.I just love him so much and he is also the same with me.A new guy is really exciting,but excitement will not last long,besides,why should i settle for somebody else if i already have the best..I am really happy with my present realtionship.And i intend to stay in the realtionship as long as we live. Welcome to mylot,i hope you will enjoy it here.

speaking from experience....i was in a 2 year relationship with my bf when i met another guy (now my husband). to make the story short, i broke up with my present bf and choose the new guy. i never regret it since the first time i met him. he has never done anything to hurt me especially my feelings. he loves my daughter as if she was his own. my ex bf doesnt even hug or kiss my daughter nor spend time with her. he dont go meet my parents and he has hurt me emotionally in many ways.

I rather still choose my present gf. Why cause it's what for getting someone else. Life is so simple and never make it complicated. When someone loves you already and your committed to that someone, and that someone loves you very much, and accepted you for what you are even your mistakes and faults you should not think of getting someone else anymore. The question is are you happy with your bf now? Have a nice day!

If I will be the one to choose I will seek for signs before choosing... What do you mean by new lover? New person that is in-love with you or new person that you love or you love each other? Considering that is my situation and I love my new lover too. Maybe there's a reason why that person crossed my path. It's either just to test my present relationship or maybe because he/she is the one that is really destined to me. Choosing is a hard thing because we must face the consequences that you will hurt someone's feeling and also yours. Even worst if you chose the wrong person. Just pray and God will answers you with a signs. For me I will choose the one that truly loves me not the one that I love most. But it's better if the one that truly loves me is the same person that I love most.