Help please?

HECK NO! If my boyfriend told me to thank him for loving me because I didn't look good enough for him, his butt would be on the curb hurting because I would stick my foot up it. She needs a guy who will tell her everyday how lucky HE is because she loves him. I say tell her to wake up and find someone who will tell her that instead of the verbal abuse he gives, and yes something like that is minor abuse. It could esculate.

no no no i cant believe she is still with this pig what a low human being he is. If she stays with him her self worth wont be worth a toss,she has got to know that she doesnt have to put up with this crap.You need to tell her she is worth much more as a women to be put down this way.If she stays with him after this then she will continue to be put down by this subhuman until she has no self esteem left,nobody has the right to talk to her in this way and if he had any respect for her at all he wouldnt he said that.

Hey there your friend should so get rid of him he is not worth it if he says thinks like that.

i think it is nothing serious, so many boys all like say that words, because they wanna make themselves more confidence, i think it is ok, because i met so many boys say that, as you said, your girlfriend can feel that her boyfriend love her, i think that's enough, don't care that boring words, sometimes man need to say that to make them more self-confident.

To me that comment doesn't sound like a joke, and I get the impression that he doesn't respect your friend and tries to boost his self-esteem at her expense. I have no way of knowing if that is the truth because I don't know them, and I don't know if that is his idea of a joke, but it doesn't sound like a joke to me. I think the important thing is what kind of relationship they have. Is she happy in her relationship? Does her boyfriend often make that kind of comments? If so, does she get hurt or does she see it as a joke? I were you I would talk to her about the situation but ultimately she is the one who has to decide if the relationship is worth keeping or not.