Do we have to tell our partners where are we going?
By markmoney
@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
October 27, 2008 10:11am CST
I think by that practice, telling your partner where you going, will decrease the possibility of infidelity. I think it's good. You are committed to your partner so he/she has the right to know where you are or where are you going. I think if you have nothing to hide and has no plan on doing oddity or negatives, then it will be easy for you to tell your partner where are you going or where you are. In case of emergency or something happen to you, then your partner knows where he/she will locate you. How about you? What is your view about this?
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@coffeechat (1961)
• New Zealand
27 Oct 08
In the first instance it is an act of courtesy. It is an essential part of intimacy that one shares aspects of our lives with our significant other.
Teenagers sometimes as an act of rebellion or affirmation of adulthood refuse to let parents know. This, though excusable is part of an attitude where transparency is feared.
In adults, refusal to share whereabouts may be a symptom of a deeper problem within the relationship. This needs to be addressed whenever it happens.
Cheers.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
You're definitely right. Thanks for your response. Cheers! :)
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@coffeechat (1961)
• New Zealand
27 Oct 08
I must add - in adults who lie about where there are going there are definitely deeper issues that need quicker resolution.