Should friends be so close that there is no secret to each other?Degree?

I'd say no. That's a few kinds of secrets you just can't tell anyone else, for their sake. : O I'd say friends are people that stick by you and support you, people that understand you and all that cheesy stuff. : D There are some "friends" that are not really your friends at all, and are just using you, etc. I think that's really the closest you can or should get. It really depends on people though, some people trust everybody, some don't. :I

Only God can be that kind of a friend. Anyone else may use something, intentionally or unintentionally against you. Only reveal things that can't be used against you. I have seen many messy situations. Guard your mouth and guard your heart.