Don't Judge a Book by its Cover

My very best friend that I had when I was a girl, was just like you. She was the most fun friend. She could climb trees, arm-wrestle boys (and she usually won), play baseball, etc. She was quite different from myself and yet we were a compliment to one another. She helped me to be more adventurous and to stand up for myself. She learned a little bit of girly things from me. She is a wife and mother now and this is just who she is. God made us all differently. Wouldn't it be boring if we were all alike?!

Some people are really like that, they love criticizing others and judge you on what they seen outside of you. They judge you through your actions but they didn't try to know you better, the deepest part of your personality. And that's unfair, but you know, you don't need to please them, the important is what's in your heart. Oneday they will feel tired of criticizing you, just show to them that they are wrong on their perception towards you. Just live the life that you are happy and comfortable and stress-free. Don't mind them. happy posting.

It is unnecessary to satisfy everyone.Since you know what makes you comfortable, then do it and be yourself.

I can recognize lots of your sayings, I think we all hate it to be judged allready before we could even say your name. As crazy as I am anyways, I'm stucked with this pre-judging all the time, but I think I stopped bothering it nowadays, cause I know who I am, and my friends know it to. I think we all have pre-judges about everyone, its just in our blood that we do, but the people which calling you names for it, are the irritating ones, just cause there more 'normal'. I think those who complain about you, the way your are, the way you look. If my family would give any complains about me, I say most of the time that its just the way I am, and they should not have any problems with it, or I say: "Yes I am whatever he/she is saying, if thats makes you feel better, most of the time they will realise that is was pretty useless from them to complain about you, cause they dont become better from it. I think I might have confused myself with this text, and sorry for my bad spellings.