Finally a good man!!But is it to soon??
@minniedesiree (29)
United States
October 28, 2008 2:14pm CST
Hey everyone, i finally found this guy that is in love with me!!I love him to, but my friends feel like we are rushing into things!!We started going out sat.which just so happened to be the day i met him!I feel that if u love someone enough it does not matter how fast u go unless u feel like it is a treat in ur relationship!!We have not kissed or anything besides a little peck on the cheek!!We are taking it slow in my opinion!!Plz respond with and comments u have on this situation!!
1 response
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
28 Oct 08
You do not know if he is a good man, you have known him less than a week. You are happier with the thought that he is in love with you then you are with the possibility of being in love with him. I can tell that by how you wrote this discussion. "YOU FINALLY FOUND THIS GUY THAT IS IN LOVE WITH YOU" If you found him and he was already in love with you, he is a really good liar and you are naive.
Your friends are right, you are certainly rushing into things. Words like "I love you" shouldn't be said until you are absolutely sure you have found the person you want to spend a large portion of your life with, if not the rest of it!
You are 16 years old! Concentrate more on your school work, going to college, and getting a good paying job. The world is full of plenty of good men there is no reason to get all hung up on some guy you have known less than a week!
As you get older you will realize that if you love someone you don't realize it overnight and it takes time to really get to know a person before you can even begin to think you might feel that way about them.