Have you ever had to cut off ties with a family member?

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Growing up I spent a lot of time with my cousin. He was about a year older than me. We play on the same baseball team, went to the same school, and lived right next door to each other.. Through High School we became even closer and it was hard when I went away to college and didn't get to hang out with him anymore. He was one of my best friends. His life changed suddenly when he broke his back in a car accident. He was only 20. He made a full recovery but still had lots of issues with back and neck pain. He began abusing the pain medication the doctor gave him, often going to more than one doctor to get a prescription. It progressed from pain meds to illegal street drugs such as heroin. He completely changed and despite trying to convince him to get help many times, I had to finally decide one day to just walk away. He was not the same friend, cousin, or person I once knew.. He was stealing from me and other family members and could sometimes have violent outburst. I told him I loved him but that I could not be a part of his life as long as he was using. It was a hard thing to do but I knew it was the right thing. He died from an overdose a few years later and although I felt very guilty for a long time, as I have gotten older I know in my heart I made the decisions that I had to. Have you ever had to cut a close friend or relative out of your life?