Does your partner/spouse ALWAYS forget birthdays anniversary's

You have all the reasons to feel that way! My goodness showing some kind of thoughtfulness does not stop one couples get married. I mean it is all the more that you should continue doing thoughtful deeds to each other. As a woman... I feel for you my dear. Of course it is not the material thing but it is the thought that counts. How could your hubby overlooked all the good things you've been doing as a mother and wife and could not even compensate you with simple acts of thoughtfulness. How about you? Are you gifting him on special occasions? Of course you can't expect him to be thoughtful to you if you yourself is not setting a good example. However, if you are a thoughtful giver, then it really is sad if your hubby do not know how to return the favor. I have been happily married for 23 years and my husband never in any single occasion of my birthday, anniversary, Christmas and Valentines Day did miss giving me gift. It could either be just a stem of yellow which he know I love so much. No matter how simple is the gift from my hubby... I always appreciate and give thanks for. It's the thought that matters most to me!

I can see forgetting your birthday or anniversary, but Christmas!! He has to know it is Christmas! My husband never forgets my birthday or our anniversary. We don't get each other Christmas gifts~ we decided to do this once we had children. Instead, we save our money and take a family vacation every year. I would feel bad if my husband forgot my birthday and anniversary, but since yours does, why not give him reminders. This way he can't forget.

Generally, men really tend to phase out with dates no matter who you are. i've been with my husband for 12 years now. He remembers the month not the date. LOL! He used to make me feel bad but then in the end I found it just plain funny that I always have to remind him. I'm his personal secretary, which I don't really mind. Sometimes, if he forgets, he pays for it big time. LOL!