Should i admit that I love him?
By grace24
@grace24 (1050)
Philippines
October 29, 2008 2:45am CST
What im going to do now? I have this problem and i cannot bear it any longer. Im very confused. I want to confessed my true feelings with one of my closest friend. Lets call him Mr.L. He is one of my closest friend during my highschool days. Before i dont have any feelings for him, that i only love him as a friend. As the time goes by, he admitted that he love me, that i am special for him. I think many times on what will i am going to do, many things is coming in my mind. Im confused, and by that time i made a wrong decision. I answered the proposal of his bestfriend to become his girlfriend. In that time I thought that i love his bestfriend and i rejected Mr.L because one of my girl friend is inlove with him. I thought that i made a right decision and at the end i discovered that he is the one that i really love. I broke up with my boyfriend. Right now, I dont know what I am going to do with him. He is still single, I dont know if he still have feelings for me. Should i admit my feelings for him or hide it forever? The point is, I dont want to commit the same mistake again, I am afraid to make a wrong decision. I am afraid to be hurt again. Please give me advice..help me...
6 responses
@zhuhui_0711 (1)
• China
4 Nov 08
I think you should tell him what your thought ,your feeling and the reason you reject him before .
Maybe he will reject you this time, but at least he know your feeling ,and you will not repent in the future.
Since you found that he is your really love you should go ahead.
Come on and good luck!
@jess2008 (1)
• China
29 Oct 08
Everyone has right to chase their happyness. Sometime , Love is selfish thing.
If you are afraid to hurt or hurt your friend. Plseas go.
Try to get along with others. Jump out of the circle.
Release yourself and him
Perhaps it is so painful.
But in my opinion, this way is a good way .
And the other people and the time could transfer your concentration.
Trust me.
Hope the advices could help you .
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 08
It's good to know that you made a wrong decision so you are know how to make a good decision for yourself, you will never know until you try and you decide it, what's are you waiting for to hide that feeling? It's useless to hide the feeling, so go on tell him, or you never know about his feeling to you forever ..
You are already made wrong decision long times ago, of course you don't want to make same mistakes by hiding your current feeling about him ...
Tell it now or hide it forever, it's the best thing you can do right now, you will know whether it's a good decision after telling him or not after you try, it's better you know that you are making mistakes rather then you never know you will succeed ...
Life goes on ... don't wait any opportunity comes, learn from mistakes even it hurts you a lot, you should become tough girl
@rea_02 (49)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
If you think that not admitting to him your true feelings is another mistake , so do it. That feelings tell you that you really have to confess. I guess you are just afraid of rejections, maybe you are thinking that the guy may not love you the same as before but I do believe that love is a risk. If you are not going to take a risk how are you going to feel the love that you want to have. Whatever the outcomes of your confession just accept it. I think once you already confess to the man that you love, you'll feel much better.
@nanny_chew (99)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 08
You might feel embaress or hurt if he reject you
You might feel shy to tell him directly
You might feel nervous to be so honest
You might feel scared to make another wrong decision
You might feel miserable now, do you?
However, if you choose not to tell him,
you might also feel regret..perhaps for life?
So why not you try to give him some hints?If he is still in you, he will come back to you..
The most important is that, make the right decision so that you will never feel regret in life :-)
