how many tough days have you gone through in your life?
By maximus2006
@maximus2006 (835)
Hong Kong
October 29, 2008 3:49am CST
Sometimes there are some little bothering trifles , but I usually feel I am a happy guy . However I am sure everybody must have some tough days in his whole life, long or short, but there must be. 
I still remember those days when I was stuck in the PHD dissertation writing. Those days could be called tough days which I would keep in my mind for my whole life. I had to stay all day long in the front of computer, thinking, programing, computing and writing. How to call that kind of life? maybe suffering.
Even now , I have gone through those tough days and could review it with a ease mood , but there would always be something byond expression rising up from the very core of my heart. Maybe that's a kind of valuable experience of my life, and it would make me be more capable of dealing with the future tough days if there were.
I should thank my familly and friends, and they always stay with me when I need them. They are my most valuable possession in my life.
how about you? had you gone through some tough days by yourself, or with the help of your familly and friends?
I still remember those days when I was stuck in the PHD dissertation writing. Those days could be called tough days which I would keep in my mind for my whole life. I had to stay all day long in the front of computer, thinking, programing, computing and writing. How to call that kind of life? maybe suffering. Even now , I have gone through those tough days and could review it with a ease mood , but there would always be something byond expression rising up from the very core of my heart. Maybe that's a kind of valuable experience of my life, and it would make me be more capable of dealing with the future tough days if there were.
I should thank my familly and friends, and they always stay with me when I need them. They are my most valuable possession in my life.
how about you? had you gone through some tough days by yourself, or with the help of your familly and friends?11 responses
@Dollyswallowjiang (37)
• China
1 Nov 08
the tough days ...
i think there are many many in my study life ,i passed the college entranced exam and got a poor score but i gone to the Shandong university of science and technology ,ofcourse only a student of a training school ,after that i passed all the exam such as the cet-4 and cet-6 and so on ,maybe these test are very for many students but not for me ,at the year of 2007 i attent the exam of graduate entrance exam but i failar ,i was hestitate for i didn't know fif i should prepare for another time ,and in the end i choose to di it again ,and the second time was so hard and i get the most presser i think ,at the last days before the exam i cry every day for the heavy mentality press ...
At last i learn that i have passed the exam ,somebody think that maybe i'll very very pleasure ,but it is not ,i just so calm and just want to stay for myself ...
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@easygo (6)
• China
23 Nov 08
Really countless! I once thought that i have poor fate,even I tried my best to do them but i always fail. Those tough days which I suffered changed me a lot, including my attitude towards life. After that i believed that whether a man has succeded or not,attitude is important. We should pay positive attitude toward any difficultied we are facing. As a saying goes: Nothing is impossible.
@mystique838 (233)
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
How many tough days I have gone in my life? COUNTLESS!! I can't count them. Everybody has tough days. It's up to the person how he will try to overcome them. I count the blessings more.
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@maximus2006 (835)
• Hong Kong
30 Oct 08
ya, you are right.
There must be many tough days, but i think some of them may not be so tough. If you are a happy person, you would ignore those kind of little tough days. I usually focus on the pleasant part of life, so only those really tough days could leave me a impression.
Wish you a happy day!
Wish you a happy day!
@jhoannejoj (963)
• Philippines
30 Oct 08
Oh that would be countless maximus from the time Im expose to the so called LIFE until to this very moment.. No one in the entire universe never gone through some difficult times in life. Life wouldnt be so exciting without those struggles though sometimes I admit I almost wanted to give up. Right now its one of the tough days, its quite depressing though I have this manta in life that is NOT TO LET ONESELF WALLOW TO PROblems.. So I just have to pause, take a break and continue life as it is again
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@pryce_mbg (716)
• Philippines
30 Oct 08
countless days, events and moments have been so tough for me! i almost think of giving up and stop struggling for the worst. I've been so weak during those times and have negative views in life. i hope i can still go on with my life.
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@peteryu12 (37)
• China
30 Oct 08
I experience rough time now. I'm hunting for job now. I even did't have the opportunity to receive an interviewing. It's really frustrated.It make me feel
my past-life is completely a lost. really unconfident about myself now with low-mood. hope it would be better tomorrow.
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@zhangw (145)
• China
17 Dec 08
As we know those countless exams, years of hard working.Now , I am studing a major I don't like, isn't it boring? I am also worryed about my thesis and seeking for a job after graduation....
I try to persuade myself to forget those things, just do what you should do,or you have to do , because except making you unhappy it doesn't help a little.
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@yun77op (17)
• China
30 Oct 08
oh yes ,tough time constantly comes,and i always take it lightly and go through tough times by myself .As to friends and families ,i dont want to bother them ,and they arent able to help most times .but i still will talk with them about other comfortable things to ease myself
@mrslisaepoetry (65)
• United States
30 Oct 08
YEARS! Injury,depression,loss,homelessness,grief,despair, countless years of pain and sorrow...Its getting better now.
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@pxhnchsh (142)
• China
29 Oct 08
Well, it's a difficult question to answer.Because today's suffering may be of great significance to person's success in the future.That means the tough days pay off.We get much more from such days than from idle times.So in a different aspect the tough days are sweet days!
However, it's difficult to clarify these type of days today. Maybe when it pass a long time since the days, we can have a much clear look of the hard time and the suffering we undergone, and we feel really sweet!
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@pingo8 (8)
• China
22 Dec 08
hi,friend!
tought days is good thing for you in a way!it can make you outguess the things in your life !
it is an experience !it is good for you all your life!
