discipline
By joshdale08
@joshdale08 (2320)
Philippines
6 responses
@joshdale08 (2320)
• Philippines
7 Nov 06
yap, there's difference! i spank, but i don't beat. and more often than not, i spank thir bottoms only. thanks for the input!
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
7 Nov 06
depends on how old they are and what they have done. Also depends on wether or not this is the first time they have done the bad behavor. But yes I do but not to often as it will lose it's effectivness. and not to the point of leaving marks.
@joshdale08 (2320)
• Philippines
7 Nov 06
i agree with you. there are really situations where you have to spank and others where talking and explaining will do. thanks for the input.
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@joshdale08 (2320)
• Philippines
7 Nov 06
when i didn't have kids yet, that was my idealism, too. but now that i have three, there are really times when you have to, if only for them to have something to be afraid of. thanks for the input!
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@ChristinaHarris (136)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I do not spank...What works best for me (which does not mean that it works best for everyone), but I take away their prized possession. For my son that is his video game. In his mind it is worse then being spanked.
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
24 Nov 06
I think that sometimes spanking can be needed. When there is no other way to get the message across to a child, they need to see that they cannot misbehave because you are in charge. While I wouldn't want my children to fear me and would much rather have their respect, I do not want to be one of those parents who has kids running all over being brats and not being punished. If I ever have children, they'd probably do something to deserve a spanking eventually.
However, I think that some methods are extreme. My parents liked to make sure I would remember what I did the next day. I think making your kid get bruised up and hurt isn't right. They might deserve it, but there are other ways to make them remember what they did.
@joshdale08 (2320)
• Philippines
24 Nov 06
yap, you're right. we always make it a point to explain to our kids the consequences of their actions. that they can't get away with having their way always and to think first if what they have decided to do is beneficial to the majority. we horse around with our kids but when they do something wrong, they know we mean business.