Am I the one doing something wrong?

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Okay, so ever since I was forced to leave school due to a disagreement with a certain teacher, my relationship with my boyfriend seems to have gone down the toilet. He would constantly call me names and threaten to break up with me, because I was having trouble finding a full time job (I was only working casually at the time) and he thought it would make me try harder to find a job, even though the only affect it had on me was making me want to lie in bed crying all day. He never once tried to make me feel better about myself. Then when one of my guy friends started to actually care about how I was, and actually tried to make me feel better, my boyfriend gets angry because I told the friend what was going on in my life and that I was unhappy. What is with that? The person who I thought would have supported me did the exact opposite and never once asked me if I wanted to talk about anything. He thought that I had feelings for the guy friend (and I don't, at all; I see all my guy friends as my flamboyant gay uncle, even when they are the most straight guys ever), so he calls me a few more names, he says we're going to break up, because I was talking to other people about whats going wrong with my life. My question: Guys, would you treat your girlfriend like this? Girls, would you put up with being treated like this? And everyone, is this my fault? Am I the one who should be fixing it? Btw, I'm terribly sorry for the long post, and if you read it all, thank you so much.