My brother's pain
By eneria
@eneria (118)
Philippines
October 30, 2008 7:55am CST
What would you do if your brother is in pain?
so much pain?
i would like to share my story, my brother is already married, its been 10 years if im not mistaken..
i know my brother loves his girl so much..
but then they had to be apart., my sister-in-law had to work abroad...
then after a year, something happened, it's really bothering.. and it is so annoying..
my sister-in-law had an affair with another guy... :(
then when my brother knew it, my brother was so depressed, and up to now i dont know how to comfort him..
i can feel that he is in pain.. deep pain.. :(
what am i goin to do?
2 responses
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 08
I can understand your feeling, eneria. When our brother/sister, someone who we love so much feel pain, we can feel the pain they suffered. When they sad, we felt the same feeling as well.
I can understand your hatred to your sister in law. so as your deep feeling to your brother. All you can do is just be with him and help him moving on. Be there so that he knows that there someone loves him. Really loves him.
But remember don't interfere too much, your brother might be a little bit sensitive because of this problem. You just trying to help, not solve all his trouble. He is an adult, he knows what to do :)
good luck
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
31 Oct 08
Yes. You just reminded me to my sisters who were there when I need them the most. I might never asked them for help, and I didn't want to get helped, but only with knowing them would be there for me, it was enough and it encouraged me to get up from the darkest days on my life to be someone tough, and moved on. I hope you would also be able to see your brother get up and move on. Good luck, you are really a good sister indeed
@tapnaroy12 (875)
• India
30 Oct 08
Hi
I feel what's going on in your and brothers mind. It's really such a pain for which there is no pill.
I believe time heals all wounds. Initially I'll tough for both you and your brother but if you can provide him moral support and comfort, I believe he'll be able to look forward. Life flows with the time. Just give him a good moral support, try to discuss about something which makes him smiling. Take him out for trip.
And importantly pray to God !!!
Wish you bro/sis come out of this shock quickly.
@eneria (118)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
thanks a lot tapnaroy12... :)
i always do pray to God to give my brother strength and courage to move on,.
i know its hard..
that same thing happened to me, the only difference is my brother is already married..
i just focused myself that i can move on.. & i deserve more..
that's what i want my brother to realize...
thanks!
cheers!