Can A Person Not Be Over The Father of There Child?

United States
October 30, 2008 8:55am CST
I had my daughter with someone else and I haven't seen her father since she was 10 months old and that was 10 years old. But, lately I have cried when ever I meantion him. I looked at his picture and I put them away. But, yet I can't stop wondering what if? Is it possible I never got over him?
1 response
@minerc (1373)
• United States
30 Oct 08
I dont think it comes from not being over him. I think that it comes from the dreams you had the regret's about not having both parents in the same house together. The sadness is there because you have to look on the bright side of things, if yall would of stayed together would it of been the best for your child or even for you. I know its this way for me I know that I made the right decision for my child and the dreams and hopes I had went with the relationship. Hope this helps. Good Luck and God Bless.
• United States
31 Oct 08
Thank you. It does help. I'm going through some tough times in my life right now. Having memories of does make it harder.