Speaker or Listener ..Whom you are
By rkrish
@rkrish (3003)
India
October 30, 2008 9:08am CST
I love to listen little or say half but try to speak more out of it. And i have a strong belief that a little listening make you step more in life but becoming a good listener is always a tough one and making it useful is toughest as well..
So are you good speaker or listener
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17 responses
@MMiller314 (14)
• United States
30 Oct 08
I'm an excellent listener especially with my friends who LOVE to talk. To me, you get more information if you just sit down and take in all the person has to say. It gives you time to form your own opinion.
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@taripres (1499)
• United States
30 Oct 08
I believe listening is more crucial than speaking! If u listen, u would have something more solid to say than always speaking out! It's one thing to be loud, it's another thing to be loud and having something intelligent to say! I'm a great listener, which also makes me a good speaker!!
Taripre$
@dazzled (66)
• United States
30 Oct 08
I am more of a listener then a speaker, I believe. When I do have an opinion I will certainly state it, but otherwise I kind of hang back and listen to others and interpret what they are saying and learn more about the people talking. I'm a huge people watcher and some people find that unnerving, lol. But I think it makes for forming great friendships since you can learn about people more quickly.
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
5 Nov 08
Ive noticed that good speakers are those who are mostly financially well settled in life and they have the confidence which money brings in. This is generally true and hence these people are better speakers than listners. I am a better listner, and give advice when asked.
@micahbrul (307)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
Friends just told me I'm a good listener. Thats why they love to call me whenever thay have troubles. In the other hand, I had always something to talk whenever we have a discussion. In my own, I can say I'm both ok.. hehehe.. But sometimes I more likely to just listen and never talk at all.
So.. Maybe I'll go with listener! Speaker should have a wide imagination to speak for everybody. Because I dont have it. I'll just stick with listening. lol
@raghul77ster (2132)
• India
31 Oct 08
i am a complete observer!
at the same time, i will explain thought in letters clealy rather than using words!
i learn a lot daily by observing!
even observing is an art!
@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
31 Oct 08
I am a listener. I find that listening is a lot more enlightening than talking is. I speak my mind when I have an opinion but I am better at listening than speaking .
Have a great day!
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Nov 08
Listening to others need patience. If you are a good listener that mean you have much patience. I like to listen to others but sometime some people are unnecessarily describe the events then I feel bore, because sometime they forgot the subject and reached to another subject. While listening to others I am trying to analyse them, you can understand what their opinion on certain issues is. Sometime I have different opinion and if the person is close to me then only I tell my difference otherwise simply keep silent. Some others won't ready accept our opinion, I will try my best to what I meant to convey, if fails I will drop, because we can never defeat an ignorant person in an argument.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
4 Nov 08
I must be better at listening because I get to do a lot more of it. I try to think before I speak. Thus, I usually lose my chance to speak.