what qualities will you look for in your future husband or wife????

I'm already married. If I was looking for a partner I would want someone that is very optimistic and happy most of the time, someone that cares about themself enough to exercise and eat healthy and someone that cares about what I like, that treats me with consideration, and of course there would have to be lots and lots of sparks!

I think that I'm not so sure as to what I do want as I am sure of what I don't want. I don't want a weak guy, however I know I want to feel needed. I want someone who pays a lot of attention to me, lots of undivided, true attention, and there's no doubt I would at least mentally castrate him if he cheated, if not physically!

I thought of hundreds of requirement for the one who will be my husband but... most of the requirements are just DREAM. But what I'm thinking of is I want somebody that really cares and loves me. I don't care about the physical appearance at all but honestly, to maintain a marriage, money stands a very important place. So, I will at least have some minimum money in my bank to make me get to the wedding process.

I would be glad to hear the qualities of a wife you like. For me, I want someone whom I really know. A friend most likely. Someone that I can treat a friend for a lifetime. It is hard to keep the relationship in marriage without true friendship. I want a wife who is caring. Not really to me but to my future children. My mother is very caring and maybe it is true that we tend to seek from our spouse the qualities of our mother (for men) or father (for women). My mother has also a strong personality. She is the one who would fight for what she believes in. One more thing is I want someone as my wife someone who also has the same belief as mine. I wouldn't risk the future belief of our children just because we believe in different things. You may observe that I would choose a wife that would really be a good mother for my children.