will you dare to have an issue outside the marriage.............

These kind of things cannot plan and do, if it happens like you said it would be because of one of the reason above.. at that time maybe cannot think properly and might regret later, we all are humans.....

I would never do that because that is betrayal to my spouse.

Not just no but HECK NO!! lol I'm one of the few lucky ones in this world because I have a wonderful, thoughtful and caring husband and would never ever consider doing anything like that to him. Now we did have some problems in our 9th year but we were able to resolve it and move on WITH each other. Now it's our 17th year and we're still going strong!

Hi juhi06, I am happy the I am no need for all that issue, I'm too old for all that, I have a lovely home and all the comforts I need I have a good husband but sometime we argue and it nice and peacfuful whe he goes to work so I don't need any thing outside of marriage. Tamara

No dare here. I don't have the perfect marriage but I don't dare bringing another human being or whatever else into such a disturbing world. I'm not that brave to go there, even though my marriage was probably over before it even got started, I wouldn't go that far, unless we get divorced or something. I don't want to be throwing around a bunch of negative energy, but it is what it is. You know what I mean?

NO!! because when i opted to marry my husband, it goes with the understanding that i will only love him and spend the rest of my life with him no matter what. which basically means, sleeping with somebody else is a violation. and having an affair outside the marriage is another violation.