will u shy when meeting new friends?

China
October 31, 2008 7:48pm CST
Hey, all my friends here, will u feel a little shy when u are introduced into a new friend or meeting a strange? i am not, maybe sometimes. but that's all depends the other side. if he/she a little shy, then i will be affected by him/her, then my face will be a little red. don't know wt to start.. but if he/she is an very open guy, who loving making friends and good at talking, then i won't .. if i feel shy ,i will try to speaking all the time, and pretended that i am not shy at all lol and u? how about u? thank you for sharing best wishes
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11 responses
@kunizzul (1066)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 08
I'm a with less word and it would be hard for me to make a conversation with new friends. It will be more difficult if my new friend is also a shy person. =)
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• China
14 Nov 08
lol,so maybe a start of the weather could be a good begining... just try to speak...things are easier than your imagination thank you for sharing best wishes
@kunizzul (1066)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 08
yeah, i think so.. =p
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
14 Nov 08
Hi there Baby orchid. I am like you i think because it also depends on the other person for me. I think i may be a little shy if i had a meeting with you for example, i guess looks are also important in human encounters but also the ways that a person behaves.
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• China
14 Nov 08
yeah....appearence is the first things we touched...but later maybe the personality... thank you for sharing best wishes
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
13 Nov 08
No i never feel shy at making new friends as my own nature is very open and sunny. People feel at ease when they meet me as i put them at ease immediately. /This knack i have got from my dad whose nature was the same. He had a very good personality which attracted people to him and his nature made them to stick with him.I am happy to have got the same talent and i personally love meeting people and making new friends. Even if the other party is shy i immediately put them at ease and soon we are laughing and chatting as though we have been friends for life.
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• China
14 Nov 08
wow...that' really so cool...an open and sunny personality is really a born gift...everyone likes this kind of friend...they do bring us more sunshine.... thank you for sharing best wishes
• Malaysia
13 Nov 08
I don't have any problem to meet someone that I never know. The little problem is on the ice breaking session only and after that, there won't be a problem anymore. If we meet someone else, we can't over estimate him/her. Just keep on thinking that he/she are same like us. Treat them like normal so we will not shy anymore.
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• China
14 Nov 08
just keep on thinking that he/she is same like us....treat them like normal soo we will not shy anymore....wow....clapping.... really a useful advice...i will take it... thank you for your smart idea.. best wishes
@anjanabs (127)
• India
13 Nov 08
it depends on persons and situations.
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• China
14 Nov 08
yeah, things depends .. thank you for sharing best wishes
@anjanabs (127)
• India
13 Nov 08
like you,it depends on person.i faced such situations lot of time.i had a friend.we made friendship throuh phone.we hadn't been met about 1year.after a year when i first met him ,words cannot explain how much shy i had.i didn't speak anything to him.and he was talking something and i was only given answers to his questions.after that i met him 4times.all those meetings i had shy.i talked only a little.but when i was on phone i had been talking a lot for a long time.
• China
14 Nov 08
well..i do remember my first meet with my call-friends.. we are really both shy, nothing like in the phone....very open... i don't know why,,, lol thank you for sharing best wishes
@justmay (67)
• China
14 Nov 08
why should I shy.someone may be conceited,presumptuous or authoritative,but first at all,they are human beings,just as we are.we are equal.if you do not like what he said,stop him,if you feel untasteful about his behaviour,tell him.why do you shy,just because you have no enough confidence to youself.Let's have assumption,if you are the queen,you will have the ability to move with ease.ok,facts speak louder than words,JUST LIKE A QUEEN BEFORE YOUR NEW FRIENDS.
@pryce_mbg (716)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
yes, i do because i often feel the awkwardness of meeting new friends. i am not really a shy person but when it comes to first meetings, i usually feel so shy.
• China
14 Nov 08
lol,well to me, sometimes shy,,,,but i will try my best to be active...if all of us keep in silence....then we have to look at each other for a whole day.. thank you for sharing best wishes
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
Hi babyorchid. Most of the times, I don't feel shy when being introduced to a new friend or acquainted with a stranger. However, there are times that I may be a bit shy especially if the person I am acquainted to is quite well known or popular. It's just that I feel uneasy with it. I agree with you on trying to show confidence most of the times. It also makes the people want to know you more (",).
• China
14 Nov 08
hey, jaymezroolz,thank you for sharing, it's right to be confidence all the time.bcz our confidence may save others from shy.. lol thank you for sharing
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
i guess i dont really think that im shy... since it's a first meeting, im just not really comfortable talking to the person i've met...but there are also times, even when it's our first meeting, we would feel comfortable with each other... maybe it depends on my mood at that moment...
• China
14 Nov 08
yeah. that's really interesting or hard to say... bcz sometime...someone we saw the first time..but seems like we've knew each other for long time... thank you for sharing best wishes
@peterhua (11)
• China
3 Nov 08
I was also a shy guy before. With the improvement of my knowledge and experience I get rid of the bad habit. Almost of introverts are very shy. They are intimidated to front unfamiliar things or people, and always feel no confident. usually they are pessimistic. oppositely ,extraverts are optimistic and glad to talk to different people. at the same time they are accepted by others and adopted to new environment easily. so they always feel comfortable anywhere. It is no advantage between inrovert and extravert. Introvets like to think by themselves. I thind it is important to change youself according to different conditions, and yourlife will be color.
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• China
14 Nov 08
wow, changing as condition calls, then life would be colorful. yeah, wonderful words thank you for sharing