Have you lost in love?
By tonniek02
@tonniek02 (457)
United States
November 1, 2008 8:55pm CST
I would say, I have..One time in my life, I dated a guy that was really good. I started dating him because he was safe. I had always dated the bad boys and aways ended up hurt. Then one day, I decided to date this guy that was everything I didn't date before. He was good, careing, and very much a family type person. One day after I came home from work I found out he had been looking at wedding rings. That was not on my to do list at thaat time of my life. So I dumped him. And didn't even tell him why. Now that I look back, I really wish I had told him how I felt back then, My life may had turned out so much differently. I heard from a old high school friend that she still hears from him from time to time. And he alway askes about me. I really think, He was the one, I let slip away. Have you ever felt that about a past boy friend or girl friend?
3 responses
@gr4p3s (15)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I have. This one girl, I really liked. I really thought she was the one. Yet, she rejected me and we stayed friends. But for some reason, I kept feeling like she also liked me. But she would never say. And then we got in a big argument and we no longer talk.
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
3 Nov 08
If you really feel she may be the one, the you need to tell her. Write a letter, put you feelings in words and read it over and make sure that it says just what you want. If you don't try...You may regreat it later.
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Maybe, she thought about things and found that she does have feeling for you to. Once you get it read it. And Respond. If I had told the guy how I felt. Who knows maybe after a few years we would have married and I wouldn't have gone through two marriages. And I wouldn't have to wonder what it would be like to laugh and smile again....
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Don't feel sorry for yourself. Love will come, just make sure it is the right kind. Just don't jump into something for lust. Make sure you know the difference
@guoguanghua (100)
• China
2 Nov 08
now i am losting in love.for many years,i have never missed a girls so much,this is my first time,i don`t want to lose it,but the reality doesn`t give me any chances,i am so depressed,because it is not easy to come accross a girl whom i miss so much.
but reality is reality,we can`t change it ,what we can do is to accept it,though our heart is so hurt.
happy everyday.
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
3 Nov 08
No....reality can be change, And you are the only one that can change it..Beleive me. If you don't follow through with your feelings. You will not be able to move on. You need to find out her feeling for you or no one will ever messure up to her. And you will not be able to give your heart to someone else. If for some reason she rejects you, then it will be easyer for you to move on and find another.
