is there a mylot curse for those that are trying to read 1,000 points?

So far, most of the active referrals in my list remain active. Which is just a few actually. The rest just never make it to the 500 mark. Most of them don't even have a hundred posts to their name. It is so sad that they are not making the effort to be active here.

I wouldnt know anything about all that, lol I only just started, but I think its great to get even a tiny bit of money for doing what we do here. i mean, its fun and its easy. What more do you want? I mean I wouldnt do this for a living because obviously it does take time to make a decent amount, but hey a little extra just for having a little fun, cant beat that! I hope i dont end up quitting like those you speak of.

Hi, moonlitmagikchild. It might be a matter of burnout, just needing a little break, something like that. I can't remember my numbers at the time, but I remember feeling like I had really hit my stride, but then suddenly needed a break from it all. At the time there seemed to be a lot of bickering, people being mean and I didn't want that in my life. It is likely they will be back at some point.

I think because it's not a fast way to make money....it's more social then for pay. I think those that try to make a living this was get frustrated! But if you are here for the social part....to meet people and exchange ideas...then it's easier.

I think a lot of people sign up for the money and find out it doesnt pay like they thought it would, others sign up really liking the site but spend so much time here that they start getting burned out(this kind of happened to me but I refuse to give up). I think some get upset when they dont get the response they expect from there discussions too. I can think of a few reasons people might leave, Iknow that I wasnt even here for a month when I started noticeing some dropping out of my friends list so I know what your talking about. I guess we just have to enjoy the ones that stay. Cheers, Tianna

I do agree with you, except for one point. :) "obviously since they are over 500 they have already made payout once..." I beg to differ with that. I am getting close to 900 and I have not yet reached my first payout yet. For some of us, it takes a while. I'm not always able to spend a lot of time here, and even when I am, I'm not always able to make "quality" posts every single time that I post. Sometimes you can answer a question in 1 or 2 sentences instead of writing paragraphs worth of information. Anyway, it is very possible to be over 500 posts and still have not made your first payout yet. :) But, otherwise, I agree with you. :) Of course myLot is legit! It's just that some of us are just slower than others! *LOL* Cheers! :)

I think that perhaps they find something else or they really are fustrated. I don't know, I go back and forth. I have burst of activity where I post like crazy and then do nothing for a couple months. I do have other stuff going on.

I'm not sure. I never really searched through my friends and noticed anything like this... Then again, I never paid much attention. Oh well, what can you do? It would be nice for more friends to remain active rather than just letting their account sit. Lots of us have fun here -- guess they got bored of it or something?

Sometimes it could be a case of things have happened...pc broke down, had to cut off the internet...the time of year. I find I'm on less during the summer and on more during the winter. I noticed after a while some of the discussions seem repetitive if you dont branch out and add more interests. I've also noticed that people come back every once in a while.

I would have to agree with you for I have noticed alot of my good friends here on mylot have done this. I think your going to find a majority of alot of them quit because of certain discussions and nonsense going on in here which I think is crazyness to even bother with it. I'm hopeing that alot of these new people don't let 1/2 of what is said in here get to them and just be here to have fun. I know I will never quit and remain to have fun here for many more to come.

i tot it should be the other way. if i am in such a position i would be very determine to reach 1000 as a milestone. now i just cross 500 and i am happy. so my next target is 1000. if i am already at 900 i would never give up posting until i reach it.