Do you find it insulting when people stare at yuor boobs?

Well, I think no one girls want people staring at their boobs, right?? It really embarrassment and insulting part of you when someone stares in your boobs especially boys... Obviously, my answer is no! I don't like people (boy or girl) stare at my chest particularly in my boobs.. I don't really feel comfortable when someone stares at me even in my face.. I really hate people staring me especially in the chest, it seems that I was being harass.. I really don't know why do people especially boys keep on staring women boobs.. I know that they are boys but do they really need to look at there.. It really makes my head hot.. Well,I can't say that I'm blesses because I don't "have a big boobs".. Maybe quite average but that big.. I sometimes hope that i have a small one cause I know that no one would be interested to stare it since it is small...Sometimes, I'm wishing that those people who really fun looking/staring in the chest of women will be going to blind for a punishment.. I just really hate those people who loves staring in the boobs..

All nice things are meant to be admire, and it's guys instinct to be looking at boobs whenever they come across one, especially when it's a big one.. But no offence here ok?? According to research, it all boils down to everybody mentality, and how often they get to see such things.. So the more ple see big boobs, the less interested they will be when they come across one again ^_^ So those whom stare, are just simply igornant about things ^_^ I do look at boobs too, but i dun stare.. I will respect woman, by just looking and just go, but never stare ^_^

Hi pehpot, I havent experienced this but I can understand how you feel....but how can you avoid people staring at you by slouching... you just need to ignore, consider yourself lucky and take it as an asset instead of liability... that way you can feel happy instead of getting sad

Hey pehpot! You tell em! I have really big boobs! I mean really really big boobs and I hate that I get stared at all the time! It is rude and uncomfortable! I don't get looked at, no my boobs get looked at! Hey, look up here! Look at my face when I'm talking to you! I have been going through this since I was 16 years old! I don't even have any children and I have had to deal with this all my life! It is truly miserable! People don't understand that it makes women uncomfortable, at least it makes me uncomfortable. You talk about slouching, that wouldn't ever help me. I have always been self concious about my boobs and I am just happy that they are healty right now but I am not heavy and they are three times the size of the rest of me so they really stick out which makes them look even larger. They are 38DD!!! Try to hide those under a shirt!

It is very annoying when people stare at the sensual parts of my body. I hate to be stared at in a maliciously way actually. Some people, most are guys, have the habit of looking at women's boobs. I've experienced catching guys staring at my boobs and I give them a really "mad" look. I don't think it is good to look and even more, stare at that body part. But honestly, sometimes, I also get to look at women who are actually showing part of their boobs. I think it is insulting for our part since it decreases the dignity of women. I think no matter how liberated we are, we should still not show "everything".

for me, im dont feel comfortable when i see someone, whether a man or a lady looking at my boobs. i also do sloching sometimes, but it hurts, so... what the heck, i still wear plunging necklines as long as we look good on it. we should be proud coz we were given "this blessing" :)

i have big ones and they stare all the time at my chest but since i been getting that all my life i don,t really pay any attention to it.a lot of men like big boobs and so they stare at women that have them.they can stare as long as they don,t touch.i never slouch iam who iam can,t hide all these boobs.

as long as they don't get in my face or try to cop a feel i don't care. i can deal with staring though it's kind of rude. it's kind of impossible to hide mine,so it's gonna happen.

Oh gosh this so true. I hate it when guys do stare at your boobs as if the only thing that you have is the boobs. I do not take it as a compliment, it's more of a harassment.

if u look at the people who make fun of other, it is because they are very hideous themselves, and need to pick on strangers faults in order to make their own ugliness tolerated by themselves. so, just look at their own ugly features and have a good laugh. that is what they are trying to camouflage to make themselves feel better about themselves.

Hi there pehpot Although I am slightly larger breated than a lot of women I really don't have this problem because I keep myself well hidden. Even in the summer I tend to wear t-shirts that are not revealing or tight so as to show them off in anyway. Maybe some people do look but I really don't notice or pay any attention to what other's are looking at! I think I am in my own little world most of the time!

As a young girl I was one of the last in my class to "develop" The boys signed my 8th grade year book "roses are red, violets are blue, boards are flat and so are you." Nice, I know. I then took a 2 week vacation to NY over the summer (and didn't play my usual 5 hours of tennis a day) and gained 12 pounds...guess where? I started ninth great "well endowed" and never looked back. I do not necessarily think it is apprpriate for others to stare, but it does not offend me. I pretend not to notice and am just thankful that, at 40, and after 2 kids, they are still where they are supposed to be and not at my waist, lol.

one more thing, big boobies may give the illusion of you having a flatter stomach. its best if we don't slouch. i do this all the time, and its horrible.

I don't really care. Technically, they're just sacks of fat, no different from what you've got on any other part of your body. If my fat turns people on, so be it!

i am "blessed" (well more like cursed in my opinion) with a DD cup. and yes i get stares all the time! i dont even have to be wearing a low cut top! i do tend to slouch or at least hold my shoulders up and forward a bit to try and pull them back a bit lol! and i never go out of the house without a cardigan or something OVER the shirt im wearing..even in high summer when its 110F outside. it is very uncomfortable. though sometimes more than others. there have been those times when i catch a guy staring and instead of continuing to stare or look up at me then back down (i hate those ones!) every once in a while i come across a guy who will look up at me and smile very pleasantly..and once blushed like no tomorrow lol! course he was as pale as i am so it showed pretty easy..but at least he had the courtesy to smile in a pleasant slightly apologetic way!!

well i have a similar problem with yours but it is the other way around. i usually catch women's boobs staring at my eyes and i just can't help it but get mad at these women. lol! seriously, big boobs is both a blessing and a curse. i'm not the one to stare at a woman's chest as i prefer the butt myself but sometimes i just can't help it. there are times that i find myself just trying to get a peek especially if a woman with a small petite body has big boobs. i'm just amazed at how that is possible. believe me when i say that i personally don't want to stare but there is that little voice that goes in my head, "boob alert!boob alert!boob alert!!!" and it just won't stop until i get a peek. lol! i have had girlfriends who were extremely blessed and i find myself at the other side of the fence when i see other men stare. i don't get mad but i do try to "protect" my then girlfriends from the unwanted attention. i always reminded them to not call attention to themselves by dressing and acting appropriately. sometimes though this is not enough as there are really perverts out there. when this happens i just make sure that my then girlfriends are protected. i make sure that they feel safe and that they are actually safe with me around. anyway, i do hope you don't encounter that problem anymore.

yes, i also hate it when they look at me in a perverted way! i don't have big boobs...but some really stare at me...

no, in the first place I am not a woman but if I am with my wife and they will look at her or stare in that part i guess it is so insulting in my part as a Husband so I would talked to the person that she does not have to stare in someone else Boobs...

I agree .. I don't like being stared by strangers, especially in the chest. It's quite degrading!

my boobs started growing when i was eight. i do have my share with maniacs and sickos staring at my boobies. of course i mind if that sicko really looks like a sicko. that would really make me sick. but sometimes, i must admit, it really isn't that of a burden if it's your crush staring at you, don't you think? however, if it's disgusted womens' stares that you get, it must be that they're too jealous, or, it's time for you to get a bra that's fit for you (under-wired/padded,etc). (by the way, i'm speaking generally here.) about cleavage, wearing dresses showing your cleavage can help aid the illusion of a slimmer figure, you just have to know the right cut, and choose outfits that doesn't have Hoochie Momma written all over it.