would you share all your personal secrets with your best friend?

@froogle (775)
November 2, 2008 4:05pm CST
Just curious, would you share all your personal secrets to your best friend? I know some do, but doesnt that negate your own personal space? As in, I know people who even share intricate details about their marriage life etc to their best friends. any of you in that category? or generally, how much do you reveal to your best friends?
5 responses
nikkilee6583
@nikkilee6583 (70)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I used to tell my bestfriend everything, but once it came back to haunt me, I now dont trust many people at all. I will have deep conversations with my friends but will never tell too much, that if something were to happen it could end up hurting me in anyway. It's sad really, because once in a while we all need to vent and share things we have bottled up for so long,but some advice, BE CAREFUL in who you trust.
froogle
@froogle (775)
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2 Nov 08
hmm. interesting. but the problem is u never know when n how n why people change, na? so how do u trust someone?! its just a feeling rite that u get ..similar to love! so it all boils down to faith, right?
nikkilee6583
@nikkilee6583 (70)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Yeah, basically. I know it's hard for me to trust in anyone anymore, because I have had so many stab me in the back, but i hate to think that there is no one out there who can be trusted. I am an honest person, but at the same time I dont have many TRUE friends. Maybe my honesty is too much for some to handle? i just wish people came with instructions, lol. Maybe with a warning "cant be trusted" wishful thinking I guess.
onecutehoneybear
@onecutehoneybear (938)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I tell my best friends a lot of things but I don't tell them everything. Some things are just way too personal to be sharing.
froogle
@froogle (775)
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2 Nov 08
hmm. so u have some amount of personal space around u. but when something relaly perosnal bothers u a lot, what do u do? just curious
onecutehoneybear
@onecutehoneybear (938)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Usually I talk to my husband or pray about it. Sometimes if I really need to talk about it then I will spill my guts to one of my two best friends. Most likely it would be my guy friend cause hes more like my big brother.
Dominique
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
2 Nov 08
It is difficult for me to always talk to my best friend, since she lives in a different country. But I still feel like I can tell her some secrets. I know I can trust her. I know that if I tell her something, she won't go and tell things to people, unless I tell that it's okay or something.
froogle
@froogle (775)
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2 Nov 08
hmm! :) thats good! its great to hear from u that ur best friend is living in another country! i guess it means u value ur relationship a lot! :) kudos to you! :)
atulkumar87
@atulkumar87 (66)
• India
3 Nov 08
most of them............. .............but it depends on th condition...........
surendranie
@surendranie (74)
• India
3 Nov 08
yea i share all the secrets with my best friends...just tell me what best friends are for..but its not the same with good friend..it only has to be with best friend..there is nothing like how much you reveal especially with best friends ..its just the trust that matters..