long distance....

@sweety10 (188)
November 2, 2008 10:12pm CST
This is the continue part of my discussion "long distance relationship..."as earlier i have told that i met a guy online n we r in touch since 7 months now we r very gud frnds...n soonly he's going to propose me...n he's native in india..for futher studies he went to melbourne...n for more information u can look on my discussion... he's cuming to india on the month of dec..1st tym we r going to meet...n before cuming to india..he propose me..n we even nt met with each other,only photos has been exchange..he said to me that ritenow he's not ready to commit me as a life partner.he said he loves me a lot n he said if our relationship continue till he settle down than he will think abt our marriage...bt m afraid to take the decision bcoz this is the relation of long distance...we hardly meet ...else now may be we meet after 2yrs when his course will be over...so m in hurdles...plz help me out from this problem...
2 responses
• Malaysia
5 Nov 08
I've been in a long distance relationship before. No doubt it was very hard, especially with the time difference. i have no idea how i survived that, but i did. drove me nuts at times and made me cry too. but there are many means to keep in touch; telephone, email, IMs, digi cam..etc. i missed him a lot, every single second and wish i could see him or for him to be physically there with me, whenever i was sad or happy. you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries;).
@snowy22315 (186986)
• United States
3 Nov 08
I guess you have to decide whether or not you want to wait that long. 2 years is a long time to wait. Maybe you could visit him sometime and see if he is really the one for you.