hOw dO you sHow your lOve with yOur partnEr?
By rea_02
@rea_02 (49)
Philippines
November 3, 2008 3:53am CST
..I'm a kind of person who is too vocal about my feeling.. I used to show it through action but sometimes they used to misinterpret what I'm doing. I don't usually say 'I love you' to my partner or other sweet words, I'm showing it through actions, for example I'm always asking if 'are you okay', 'did you eat your lunch', just like that. It's more on "action speaks louder than voice", do you agree with that?? so how do you show your love to your partner?
3 responses
@nadooa247 (1096)
• United States
13 Nov 08
I would like to hear those kind words time to time...
When he is ill i don't go to sleep i stay up till he falls asleep.
When it's his birthday the first thing i do is tell him happy birthday, happy anniversary... the first words out of my mouth the second he opens his eyes.
If he's in a bad mood i try to be patient and deal with his venting on me... i give him his space and then come to him and take him by the arm to sit down and tell him you don't like when im upset and don't tell you... i feel the same... i listen to him in short.
If he said he liked a particular dish we had at a restaurant, or that we ate when invited to dinner at a friend's/family member's home i try to make it for him
The smallest action i thank him for.
If he gets me flowers from outside i put them in water and tell him how lovely they are
If he messes up with saying something in English i make him laugh by reminding him of something i messed up with as well ;)
there are so many things one can do, or say that could show that they care. Kind words that show that no matter what you will be there are always a plus because as humans we always in some shape or form need to be reminded and reassured that our partner isn't going anywhere.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 08
hi rae,
- if i am home early, when he opens the door i will give my widest smile to him
- i try to cook for him, well he loves my cooking
- discuss on topics of interest to him
- say i love u every night
- say i miss you once i am in office
- watch football (soccer) with him
cheers
@jemalynjoy (215)
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
Since my boyfriend and I dont get to be physically together too often, we shower each other with words. But when we are together, I would hug and kiss him many times. Sometimes I do sweet nothings. The latest was yesterday, I ran an errand for him while he was having a haircut. I bought a laptop bag for him and slipped an I Love You note inside.