Do you have a neighbour that watches everything you do from their window?

This is quite creepy. He seems to have some sort of beef with you guys. And him staring at your daughter an watching her is more than creepy. I had neighbors in the past who were the 'neighborhood watch',lol. One was an adult lady who lived across from my parents. She would be in her window almost all day long. When she thought nobody was home she would go and explore other neighbors' yards and peek into their windows. My window was street level. I was a teenager and sick at home, my parents had gone to run an errand. She didn't know I was at home and came and walked up to my window and tried to peek inside. The window was ajar because it was a warm day. She tried to open it, lol. At that point I said, "Hello, Mrs..." I had never seen her that red-faced. But she was good natured and simply nosy. She also was the neighborhood gossip, lol. Anyhow, the second one I encountered when I was in college. This guy was constantly at his window looking outside, for many hours, day and night. The dorms were two buildings close together with a just a little park in the middle not wider than a street. My room was directly across from his in the other building. I kept my curtains closed at all times. He still knew where my TV was and how the furniture was set up. Several people thought he was a real creep and although he was always friendly and polite, we kept away from him. As to having a beef with us, we used to have a couple neighbors like that. Right now they are all nice. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. I don't envy you. Situations like that can quickly escalate and the constant feuding and not knowing what the neighbor will come up with next is not good for your health either. Please make sure that your daughter stays away from him.

How frustrating! And to be honest, a bit strange. Some people need to get their own lives, and stop just sitting around watching other people's lives.

Yes I do have nosey neighbours right down to them coming over with a half doz. stale cookies just to see who's here and have even phoned over to ask who that is at my door. This comes from small town living but what you're talking about is right down creepy. I wouldn't trade my nosey neighbours for the people you have living next to you. I think this person has mental issues and don't appolize for anything you've done as you say you're a Mom and a good one by the sounds of it. I did read everything you said here and I get it that you've been living with these issues for a long time, but never step off you guard because I feel very strong in thinking this guy is a sick unit and watching your daughter like he does is not normal. The driveway issues I could over look to some point but being stalked is not only agasinst the law and creepy but it's a warning as far as I'm concerned. Talking to the police and asking them to go talk to this creep may be a good idea. I guess the way I see this is if nothing ever happens fine but if he ever did harm to your kids, heaven forbid I hope not, but you know what I'm saying you would feel like hell if you thought you should have talked to the police. Good Luck always.

I am sorry, but I think your neighbor took the cake. I am sorry this is happening to you. And good luck, continue to be a good mom and I am glad you let him know that you are on to him.

Oh my! There is nothing more aggravating than having bad neighbors. I have some that live directly aross the road from me. I would go to the police station and report him and ask them what kind of charges you can file. I'm sure there is something that would get his attention. And even if there isn't then you need to keep it on record in case he gets really stupid. I was in a property dispute with my neighbors for 3 years so I know somewhat of what you are going through. We have owned our property for 35 years and when my son decided to build a home on one end of it they reared their ugly heads claiming they ownd it! People are nuts! And even though w had the deed and all the paper work we still ended up in court for 3 years because they tried to claim it by what is called "adverse possession". But after 3 long years we were delared "winners" in the case although there was no compensation for attorney fees involved. So basically we spent out a few thousand dollars to claim what we already owned because these nuts wanted to steal it! Oh well didn't mean to get on a roll. But the best advice I can give you is keep very accurate records..they will come in handy one day!

That is creepy. :( I wish that you could report him to the police or something. But then again, you may not want to cause trouble with somebody who may be mentally unstable. And of course, you shouldn't have to move because your neighbor is a freak! I don't know what to tell you, but I hope that you can improve your situation somehow!

neighbors!!! Oh yes we all have the neighbor from H E double hockey sticks lol. I have neighbors like that although I have been getting peace and quiet for a while because I hear the lady is in a rehab clinic. The son I guess moved out but before he did he used to turn his radio up so loud I could see my walls shaking.

he sounds like a total a$$. i'm sorry u have a have a neighbor like that. it's bad when their is conflict betwwen neighbores. i do have one that is awfuly nosy but she never has been ugly about it. my friend across the & i expect her to fall out the window one dayi don't know what i'd do w/one like yours. i would probably be in jail for trying to beat the stufing out f him. i don't know what makes people so darn mean. he needs to get a laugh. good luck w/him.sounds like u are going to need it.

it's awful, it's scary, it's interupting...i dunno if my neighbour watches everything, but i do hope they didn't and i think they can't too, becoz in malaysia, our fences r very high between house.

well i am thankful i havent encountered such thing in my life hopefully will not .

What a very bad neighbour you have. I'm sorry to hear that.I'm also have one neighbour like that. But she is the old lady already. Her house is opposite mine. Everytime she would sitting beside her window and watching to the direction of my house. And in the late afternoon, she always comes to my house and have a chit chatting with my mom. Later she will asked.."just now who come to your house?" " Who's the person that came in the white car" My mother doesn't like her very much because her attitude is so annoying. Furthermore she always bragged that whatever happened in our home's compound, can be seen clearly from her place. However, she's just an old lady so even we don't like her very much we just pretend not to bother it.

That is super creepy! Isn't there a law against something like this. I would consider it stalking or maybe even a peeping tom type issue.

Between the neighbor the general meeting has the contradiction,but we calm the mind friendly treatment opposite party that they also slowly will comprehend your manner to transfer also change them to your manner, will feel for others, this will be the basic truth which the manner will get along with people.if your neighbor dont accept it ,you can warn him and make a alert to make him scare...even though it doesnt work ,you should move to another house for your security.....

oh,that's really an unfriendly things.though it nothing happen to me.but i can imagine each people happen to it feel upset.just as if a spy staring hard at you each day.i haven't done anything wrong.what's more,that belongs to my private space and action.that really annoys each person.what do they really want to do?they only do this but nothing.don't care about it.i think they will quit after a long time.as they get nothing or any benefits.wish you happy.

How horrible!! and to think you have been living next door for years.... its totally unexpected, try to ignore him what else can be done... complaining about our own neighbour would be like inviting trouble for ourselves... hope you can handle the situation well...cheers

Immediate neighbours like that are H3LL!!! I'm in a townhouse complex, and I'm happy to say that I get along famously with all of the people in my strip of 7 units. There are others in this same complex that I cannot say the same about. Most specifically the mother in denial of her hoodlum children. They bully my kids, enough so that I've gotten police involvement as well as making official complaints to the school and counseling for my sons through the school. This too has been going on for years. I've talked to the mother, but she does nothing. Her kids claim innocence, and then issues aren't resolved. It's highly annoying.

I really want to say 's' word to your neighbour!I really hate this type of person,selfishness,impudence.If i have a neighbour like this,i must struck him with my fist!This person don't care what you said,you shall treat him as some especial way,calling the cops is not any effect.This type of person is anywhere,if i was you,i would treat him with force a litte.I have ever have one before i moved to this city,he always make me in trouble,i have ever fighted with him because i can't bear it anymore!I am lucky,i moved to another city,i was far away him.

I have someone like that in my apartment complex. He comes outdside everytime I go outside to smoke and when I go out to walk the dog he is always getting something out of his car it is strange. I think some people are just weird about stuff like that.

How can that neighbor being so not considerate! I have my inner wear stolen when I dry it at the back of my house but somehow there is somebody often come over my house and steal it away. I suspecting my neighbor but did not have any idea which one. No proof as well.

Thats what they call "the neighbour from hell", they'll do anything to make sure that they ruin other people's life, is kind like funny because most people who act like this mostly do childish stuff,and when you sit there and watch what they are actually doing you'll probably laugh at some of funny tricks they do. I think in your situation, this guy is just angry because maybe your dughter realised what he is trying to do and he can see that he don't stand a chance in getting her. I personally think this is some kind of illness, i mean how can you close a driveway so that other people don't use it?, i think there is some unregocnised illness in those kind of people