how do a mother feels when a father beats his son very badly every day !!!

I agree that beating is not good way of educate children. but penalty is essential, children are always insatiable. parents can't nurture their bad habits, so parents have to warn that something must be forbiden. If children commit the some mistake over and over, parents do a new method to prevent it. for example don't watch cartoon for weeks or stay alone in their room for an hour. parents must be patient and love to educate their children. not be furious!

it depends on the characteristics of the mother. but most mothers love their children more than the fathers and would be very upset in that scenario. they would do anything to protect the child rather than play it safe with the father. Atleast my mother is like that!:D I think this is true in most number of cases as typically women are more emotional in nature and get attached to their kids (especially sons) much more closely than the fathers.

Life is never fair. I always feel puzzled when a man couldn't appreciate his own flesh and blood. In my country I have also witnesses many occurrences where the father is not responsible towards bringing up his kids. Some of them didn't beat the kids, but they neglect the kids as if they have no relationships towards them. The father treats the kids as an annoyance, and a burden that should not exist on this earth. The father never lifted a finger to help raise the kids. He only knows how to condemn and criticize. When the kids achieved some accomplishments, the father never said anything. Not a praise and never any encouragement. But when the kids made a small mistake the father would blow up as if the kids had done a major sin. I don't know until when the same situation will continue on and on. I hope fathers around the world will realize their responsibility towards bringing up their own kids.

There are dangerous mothers as well out there. Be careful you are reinforcing the stereotype that it is only fathers that beat their children - this is not true. Unfortunately there are more mothers than fathers that abuse their children - of course mothers have more chance to do so as they spend more time with their children. Everyone needs parenting lessons to find out other ways of controlling their children other than resulting to physical violnce. Unfortunately around 80% of parents still beat (smack) their children and in some countries this is a criminal offence. However, it is training not punsihment that most parents need - there are 9 months between conception and birth and this should be used to train parents. Maybe some part of the child benefit should be conditional on passing these courses. It is also true that children of broken families are more at risk from abuse than those in two parent families. Step parents - mothers and fathers - are more likely to abuse children than natural parents. Stop the prejudice and stereotyping - don't discriminate on the grounds of gender.

That sounds badly to my ears as my hair goes up like I saw a ghost in front of me. I really hate a father like that so cruel. He doesn't have heart and don't know how to love. Better for him to go to jail for hurting a child can be unlawful he will be accusing of child abuse. That was really bad influence for the upcoming father and bad example to the eyes of child. I'm lucky for I've grown up and getting old as I didn't get hurt by anyone especially my father. Hoping for he father like them to change his heart and teach him how to care and love.

I don't think that fathers beat their children without any reasons. What I think is that they don't want their children to go on wrong path. So in order to improve them they have to punish them.

I definitely agree with you! I have never seen this happen and I pray to god that I never will! It is sad to see how some parents treat their children -abusing them by beating them. They should have thaught of the consequences before deciding to have children if they cannot look after them properly. I guess most fthers beat their kids when they are drunk and the mothers themselves are beaten or afraid to speak up against their spouses. It is a very sad situation. I just wish both parents getcounselling of some sort in order to rectify these problems before something drastic happens to the kids and themselves and then regret it in the end.

I feel so bad about that. that is just very cruel. children do not have to be beaten up just to be disciplined. those kinds of parents need to discipline thmeselves first before they teach their kids to be well-diciplined person.