with whom do yo tell your problems first .. mom or dad..??

I talk my problems over with my mother rather than my father, because my do not judge. She is a good listener and I do not have to worry about her repeating what I told her to anyone. I have at times confided in close friends or my sister. Most of the times, my mother will confide in me, before she will with my older sister.

i always open my problems to my mother in law, i dont want to offend my true parents but i can say that i am close to my parents in law than to my real parents because of some situation that i could not explain too. Now that i am here to my parents in law home , i am more open to my mother in law because she is approachable in any ways even she have also problems to her self but she listen to the problems of what we have here at home. I have no doubts to open my problems for i feel that she is my real mom.

no body!! i take them head on!! and try to solve on my own!!

It all depends on who you are closer to or you can try to figure them out yourself i have always found it easyier talkin to my mother or my grandpartents when they were alive i would say go to the person you have a closer bond to or you could go to a friend if you feel they would be able to help you better

my dad is a more approachable person as well as more open minded thatn my mom so i go to him more. though there are certain things that i know my mom can handle better so it really depends. but really, my dad makes so much more sense.