WHo is more POSSESSIVE??? Men or WOmen??
By cristine0421
@cristine0421 (222)
Philippines
November 4, 2008 9:18am CST
FOr me, it is men,, all the guy i know is very possessive.. Eve my Boyfriend is possessive,, he even choose which clothes to wear,which friend should i hang with and he always check the messages on my phone....
What is your opinion??? Who is more Possessive?? Men or WOmen??
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7 responses
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
4 Nov 08
HUH??? Pardon my asking, but are you happy about this relationship? I mean, I want my partner to trust me and not keep on checking up on me. I won't be happy if my partner does whatever your boyfriend is doing to you. I want to be responsibly free. He only has the right to give his opinions about what things I shouldn't choose if those things would ruin me.
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
4 Nov 08
Oh, forgot to answer your question: in my opinion, both men and women can be possessive. It all depends on who it is.
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
yes i am happy,, i love him so much and i understand why he is being possessive... Many girls had broke his heart.... and i am used to eat already.. tahnks for asking if i am happy... Have a nice day!!
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
4 Nov 08
Well, OK then as long as you're happy and you understand why he's doing all those things. :-))))
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I find men to be very possessive. I don't deal with it at all. For me it is a turn-off. I think both men and women can be that way. It's sad because it makes for a really stressfull relationship. I don't try to control anyones life and I refuse to have someone try to control mine. Why are you putting up with it?
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
because i am used to it already and i know he was just doing it because he love, maybe someday he would change .. thanks for asking... have a nice day!
@jess07 (319)
•
4 Nov 08
hi,
I think it depends. I know my boyfriend is very possessive and so am i.
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
you have a point,,, i was kinda possessive too
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
well i guess it depends and most likely the one being possessive is the one who loves too much, he/she become possessive probably he/she is afraid to loss his/her partner.
for some being possessive is an expression of love though on the other hand it has a negative factor but its their way of expressing their feelings.
@nightfire9 (13)
• United States
7 Nov 08
i think it depends.. and can go both ways.. but generally? im ashamed to say i think men honestly are more possesive..men are more willing to fight and be possessive and protect their girl..
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
do not be ashamed, that's what makes a man unique for loving someone so much... Your should be more proud of it..
@sujithakripesh (425)
• India
4 Nov 08
I think in ur case its too much. Are you really happy with this relationship? Because I cant bear my guy having so much of control on me. Its too much. Well I feel women are much possessive than men.
