would you search for the one you love or just gonna wait for it to come?

@cathya (704)
Philippines
November 4, 2008 7:55pm CST
"love has its own time & space" , i often read this to most articles in magazines and news papers. when a person is broken hearted we often say " its not for you" or "maybe you are not meant to be". Do you believe that love has its own time? are you going to search for your one true love or are you gonna wait for it to come?
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@CanadaGal (4304)
• Canada
6 Nov 08
I don't think love can just happen. You have to put yourself out there, and be emotionally available and open to the idea of it happening first.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
6 Nov 08
you have a point there thanks!
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@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. No need to find for that person, it will always come.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
6 Nov 08
thanks for sharing you your thought... cheers to all!
• Malaysia
5 Nov 08
When I was younger I used to believe there is true love. But as I grow older and got married I think love has to be nurtured or else it would die. We cannot love somebody if we do not receive anything in return. I don't know about you but I can never live with a person if he didn't love me at all. At least one can fake a love. Now as I am getting older I think besides love we need financial support to survive. Love cannot stand on its own, it will die if there is no money around. To me, money can buy love. Not to everybody, I know that but to some of us money can buy love. If I don't find my true love I will seek for it myself. But I won't rush into it. I will do it slowly by trying to mix around and add as many friends as I can. From there I would try my luck, who knows somebody might get interested in me and in the end be my loving partner? To me waiting is a waste of time. If I want something I will try to get it myself.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
thanks for sharing your thoughts. well as for me, i'll take risk just to find my true love, no matter how many failures and pains i met, i thing am sure, i learned from each mistakes, i stand again and moved on..
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
base on my experience i didnt look for it. i can say i didnt wait for it too. it is like i didnt know i was looking for love since i found my wife. we needed a singer in a band and she was the one who showed up. i think it was meant to be. it will come whether you wait for it or you find it, it will come in a perfect time and place.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
6 Nov 08
wow! great experience... thanks for sharing your thoughts....
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
5 Nov 08
I definitely believe that love does have its own time and space and that when you get your heart broken it is a part of finding love because it helps you to appreciate it when you do find it,and I have found my one true love who is now my fiance and we are planning our wedding for September of next year and I can not wait until the day we become husband and wife,and I used to look for the one I would be with,but then I stopped looking,and that was when a mutual ex friend of me and my fiance told me to message her on myspace,he was a jerk who tried to keep us from getting together but,I have to thank him for helping me find the one I was meant to be with,and I think that everyone who is having trouble finding love should stop looking because that is when you find the love of your life,and me and my fiance are trying to help my brother find his true love,and we keep telling him he has to stop looking,and love will find him.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
wow how lucky! congratulations! thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience..
@pryce_mbg (716)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
i would prefer to wait for the right one to come. i believe that there is a specific time provided for us to be with the person who is really meant for us.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
what if there is some one who come, how will you know he is the right one?
@subha12 (18441)
• India
6 Nov 08
I think there are so many varied opinion about this. at times i thik we should not thik so much. itf it is to come, it will come in more unexpected way
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
I believe that there's someone out there for each one of us. If a relationship fails it's just because it wasnt meant to be. I believe in destiny but i guess you also have to help destiny a little. I dont believe in searching for someone, love just happens. It comes to you unexpectedly in times when you least expect it or when you're not looking for it.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
i agree with you! thanks for responding...:) cheers!
• India
5 Nov 08
Hi........ Don't search for love.......... ur life partner may be ur friend r he may be in ur area r some where in this world........ love come within a faraction of a sec......... so cry on ur work till love comes n knock ur doors........... it a nice feelin to love n to be loved......