1st approach to an unknown lady on whom we get CRU$$H @first sight.

India
November 4, 2008 11:51pm CST
Hey mylotters,i have a strange incident which happened to me when i was roaming in some Shopping mall somewhere in Bangalore. I saw a lady,in her late 20's but was real hottie at that moment who kept staring at me even though my friends started pulling my legs pestering me to approach her. Somehow i was very poor in approaching such ladies. So please mylotters put in ur valid suggestions and prepare me to face such situations in futr... Cheers...
1 response
@LRB1111 (356)
• United States
5 Nov 08
Hello, If a woman is staring back at you that is a good sign that she might like you to approach her. If this happens give her a little smile and see how she responds. If she turn away she may not be interested. If she smiles back she may be interested. Woman like men who are confident but not over-confident (no cheap pick-up lines..). Some woman do like the shy type. But either way it is best just to have confidence in yourself and "be yourself". You will never know if you don't approach her. Just be polite when you do, say hello, how are you? and make small talk.. watch her responses. Her responses will either encourage you or discourage you. I had a gentleman approach me once and came up to me smiling (confident) and telling me how familiar I looked..etc..(making small talk). We became good friends, but he tells later that I did not look familiar, and that he just needed a reason to speak to me. I told him I noticed him too and was waiting for him to approach!:)
• India
6 Nov 08
i agree with the way of approaching ladies okie. But the thing stil boggling my mind is, "making small Talk". What exactly can a small talk can be of? The example u have suggested is a perfect one,but still should the talk be a personal talk like describing her or anything like this?? cos some ladies resist some naughty kinda character,but will turn us down if something like this happens. so please put in valid comments.