Love is found because of destiny or chance?

i think love is just a matter of choice, not by change nor destiny.. c0z i myself believe in the saying.. "dont let destiny guide you.." "make your own destiny"...^_^.

i think it is the contribution f both. there must be chances when you meet your love. also some time it is your destiny when you really search the love

I think it is right there is destiny exist in our whole life.and we couldn't change our destiny in any way.But not all true love is found by the destiny.Because sometimes, we may hear some folk stories said it is predeterminate for two lovers together with each other by the chance ,but they don't have the fate to be together.So i think sometimes, if the destiny is predeterminate to them, god must give them the chance to find each other.even though i also can't tell this clearly.BUt i believe in the destiny,i can feel the destiny arrange everything in life.destiny also creat the chance to let the lovers to find the real love.It is just my opinion.lol happy mylotting.

i think love is both, finding someone you are destined to and being lucky to found the other one. i had been trying to search for my soul mate and been hurt for so many times, i guess this is not yet the right time. i was lucky to have that ex bf of mine but destiny proved to me that he is not the right one, so i am hoping i will be lucky next time.

hmmm i guess i believe in destiny and making decisions in life, i met mine through the internet and we did became boyfriends back then but thre were times when we went through separate ways...but still after how many years we still found each other! so i believe in destiny