Have you ever been turned down by a girl???
By cristine0421
@cristine0421 (222)
Philippines
November 5, 2008 7:57am CST
Have you ever turned down by a girl??? if yes how many times??? there was this guy in my hish school, he courted 10 girls in my class including me and he got busted 10 times. What would you feel if someone turned u down?
3 responses
@11strikes (66)
• United States
5 Nov 08
In my high school days, I was too shy to ask a girl out. Not just that...I was always afraid of being turned down. So basically, I really never knew how it was. But I have seen a lot of guys with all the guts to do so. And if they are turned down, they just try asking other girls out. Maybe its just a matter of getting used to, don't you think?
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
maybe some guys are just playing a game,, if they lose, they will gamble again,,, just like the saying try and try until you succeed... thanks for sharing your experiences. have a nice day
@peter_wu (6)
• China
6 Nov 08
Well, in my 4 years university life, I had liked 3 girls who refused me. I like them because they are beautiful. I have feeling on them in my first sight. I try to get close and make friend with them. 3 times I faild, and felt very dismay. After analysis, I got the reason as follow;
1. I didn't collect the exact information. she already had lover.
2. She didn't have any interest in me, as I am not the kind of boy she liked.
3. she was in bad mood. any new people who try to closed her will be refused.
Every time you are refused, tell yourself to try again. Then you will meet you lover.
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
awww,, someday you will find the perfect girl for you. thanks for sharing your experiences here at the discussion,,, have a nice day
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
7 Nov 08
if i get turned down by a girl to me its not the end of the world lol , u build alot of confidence in your self when u experience on getting turnded down , now other guys cant take that advice and still dont get the hint and still follow after the girl that says No !! constantly to them everyday lol
@cristine0421 (222)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
yeah some guys just don't know how to quit even the girl said NO... have a nice day!!
@nightfire9 (13)
• United States
7 Nov 08
its happened. it didnt faze me, although she was sending me mixed messages. she always wanted to hang out with me and had long chats about whatever, and we had good times..on several occasions she gave me hugs and then later on i asked her if she liked me like a friend or if she wanted to actually have a relationship and asked her for a kiss. turned out she just wanted to be friends.. idk, she was sending the wrong messages and made herself hard to read. i was like whatever, theres plenty more fish in the sea, just watch how you present yourself, i thought you really liked me..awkward when that happens..what do you say or do?
