Has life been unfair to you?

I do feel that my own life has had it's fair share of unfair influences for sure but thankfully I have learned to not dwell on these aspects too much. Although at the time of any of these negative events in my life I was devastated, depressed, hurt or disillusioned etc but I always end up being able to look back and see that I of course survived just fine! The important thing is that we not only learn from these experiences; but that we are able to maintain a positive energy about us in spite of them. This is not easy! But we do stand a better chance of attracting positivity into our lives if we can manage to prevail. As for today, there are certain less than optimal circumstances I find myself in sometimes that I KNOW I deserve and many I do not; but I WILL win in the end because I believe I will! I am also fortunate to have many positive circumstances as well adn this is what I try to let rule my mind most of all.

Well Mimpi,what happens in our life is largely outside our control,but the way we chose to react is not....Very often ,I find that what looks like the end of the road,is more often a bend in the road......Also when some of my lifes desires are left unfulfilled,I always remain optimistic and keep hoping for something better.....Its better to be an optimistic winner than a pessimistic loser.......

When I was a teenager I had a lot of hateful rage in me and I thought life was unfair to me and the world owed me something because of the rotten up bringing I thought I had. But in my early 20's some serious life issues were thrown in my face and I had no other choice then to deal with my Mother dying at a young age. Oh boy, life got harder but at the same time I had a blast discovering who I was and I felt the worlds doors open to me . I fell in love and I no longer felt life was unfair. I think I took a lot for granted in my mid 20's and acted like a silly teenager until the age of 31, when my son was born. But in a sense I feel like I'm the same person I was then,but nowhere as angry, My son somehow open my heart and help melt a lot of my anger. Now I'm more appreciative and thankful for what I have. Oh, people are not born losers, loser's are created .

Hi Dear i never think Life can be unfair to anyone, just we get im patient and start complaining if u never loose hope and dont get disappoint, trust me life is not THAT Bad as far as i am concerned, i am fortunate that Life is treating me very well with the Grace of almighty ALLAH, and i am happy, though have and had problem, but its Life Take care Mou

i think that how you choose to see life has a big impact on how you feel about it. i belive that my life is firmly in gods hand so all the things i have been through will turn out good in the end and through whatever i have suffered god will give me a way to make a difference in some one elses life and that way my hurt or pain through the experiance will not have been for nothing if you can help to influance one persons life in a good way through your expiriance i belive that that expiriance had a perpose. i also choose to try and see the best in other people i belive that everyone has some thing good in them and no matter how hard it is to find if you can find that thing you focuss on the good and not the flours you tend to do the same with all life i choose to be happy and i think all people have that chouice

well we all have our share of ups and downs and sometimes the downs predominates---but we live. i've had my share of hell on earth, but i healed, i moved on and i grew up to be a better person after that. i have always believed that everything happens for a reason...it's not really how hard we fall that's important, it's what we learn and how long it takes for us to graciously stand up after we fall that really matters....dont you think so???

Happiness is a state of mind and is relative.There are those who do not go through even half of the misfortune and suffering that some of us do. And there are those who are worse off than we are. So it really a matter of perspective.We think we are happy with the way things are after having reached a particular point having achieved out that what we set out to do. Then there are a sequence of events which may not be in your control and things go wrong. One event after another preceeds and one reaches the other end of the scale in terms of success and happiness, in other words the bottom of the well. Whether these things could have been in your control it is both a yes and a no.But that is a question that we will always perplex us. Mimpi, if i have to look at my life situation, then i would say that that i have gone through unprecented events and why i went through them i never understood. Some of them hit me so hard that i never could comprehend and get a grasp on myself leading me to further throw away whatever i had. After all that i have been given a second chance. Did i deserve it ? In that sense i am blessed. How blessed and fortunate i will be in the future time will tell. But optimist i sure intend to be.

It has. That's one of the realities of life. We do experience some unfair treatments and bad social encounters with people at times. Most of the time, it's what how you look like that made some people react badly or otherwise. It really happens.

People have not been fair to me but my life has always more or less reflected what I've put into it. Remember that we do have a big imput into life and each imput has a result. Many people place something into their lives and get something they don't want but they are the ones who put themselves there in the first place. Know what I mean ?

there were times that I really confess life has been unfair to me no matter how I told myself that what happens to me is not the issue of being fare or unfair.I can say that I'm happy right now for who and what I am coz I'm pretty sure I deserve it,but still I know that there's a lot in my life that awaits me which I have to discern so I can say to my self that I'm blessed enough.I still feel the need of aiming something coz I know there's a lot more to come.

i believe, all of our life is fair enough. although we didn't get what we want in this beautiful life. all that unpredictable problems is a way to explore more meaningful items of our life. and pardon me,i'm not so agree with 'some are born loser'.no one was born loser.we born to become a winner, isn't it? :)

I guess its not fair or unfair. All people have different lives, and different situations to face. Some people have it better than others and worse than others, and if you compare, there's usually someone with an easier or harder life than you, so its hard to judge what's fair or not. I think you have to handle it well no matter how it goes. Just do ur best!

The last year, I thought that I had the rawest end of life's deal. But then I realized it was me all along who had that power to make life fair. So far, life is how I love it.

My life has been pretty unfair to me at times. There were times in my life when i had big dreams for myself but because of some instances i couldnot fullfill them and i blame my fate for it. And when i see my friends or other people doing the same thing which i had dremt of i feel less blessed. But then i feel blessed for many things in my life for which i would like to say thank you to god. My little son is my dream come true for me. I had literally bagged for him to god. And my husband my true soulmate, i met him in this life and i got a person who loves me unconditionally.

i donot think life ha been unfair to me.i did have my share of problems but at the end of it,i always think that i went through such and such problem,i could learn so much from it.life has not been bed of roses or me.

O yeah. I have a friend like that. No matter how hard he try even the simplest things become tougher for him. Me on the other hand dont believe much in fate and all that. Its life and everyone has to suffer. All i do is enjoy everything.

I've recently learnt this - Life is not fair, and we just can't expect everything to be fair. Knowing and accepting this makes me happier. Yeah, I'm happy with who I am now.

I have had my share of ups and downs in life but I have always thought that it is because I may have made some wrong decisions in life. I will not say that I am happy now but I have accepted life as it comes my way and try not to complain as that only makes things worse.

yes. i think that life is unfair to me.

i guess there's a lot of times, i do ask myself why has life been so unfair..... almost everyday.... maybe, that's why im having this depression.... but in some cases, especially when i see my kids... i would thank God about how blessed i am having them... i guess every human being asks the same question...