wanting to have a date with hubby...

Luckily everything can wait for another day for me when my wife wants to date me.

Hi Nhey, going to date is really very romantic, especially for those married. Since I am single and I have boyfriend, we only date on weekends. But most of the time, he prefers staying at home and watching TV. Well, I would like to go out for climbing mountain, go cycling, or go to surbub to enjoy the sunshine,fresh air,forest all the nature. I will do that with my other friends. I really have no way to persuade my boyfriend to go together with me, if he agrees, only twice or thrice....just let him alone...my life is not for him only one person, and also for others I love...

Dates with hubby are rare. That's why I enjoy them when I get them. I got to go for coffee yesterday with him. It was nice just sipping coffee, holding hands. And being able to talk. Little things really do mean alot.

Hi Nhey, the expressing is love and reciprocating your excitment towards the expression is foremost important in love to continue further and hats up to your thought reciprocating for a date is great than the expression of miss u..nice one to think about.

Aww, my husband and I are are the same way, but sometimes too my husband gets too busy to even have a date. With his job keeping him so late sometimes. But we always plan a day to go out when he is off from work. Does your husband ever have an off day were yall can do something together. Or how late does he stay at work, like maybe you can prepare a romantic dinner for him at home and that can be your date night. My husband and I always have dates when we can and sometimes they are at home. You don't always have to go out to have a date. Like prepare a romantic dinner and maybe watch a movie afterward. That might work.

I would tell him that I'll be seeing him after his work. Like we could meet somewhere or meet outside his office. then we'll go straight to the restaurant. If you want personal touch....you may drive straight to his office at lunch time the tell him he should have a lunch date with you in the parking lot. Prepare everything in your car....it's more personalized, sweet, and it's home cooked. A kiss and hug would be much appreciated after the meal.

I am not in a position like this as I am not married or in any relationship. if he can manage dropping the office for a day, its Ok. othyerwise it will be problem

That sounds like fun. I have my husband to take a day off of work throughout the year also since we work seven days a week. We have to make time for each other also.

Having a date often is really good for partners. From time to time, I date my wife as well. Going to restaurants and spending time in the park are mostly our trips. Those things bring back the spark in a couple; thus, making them more excited with each other again.

Trouble is that my wife is working too so she can not call me up to take leave and get home, but one day when I ws feeling really romantic, i walked in to her school and met teh principal and todl him that I had to take her for an importnat appontment with the doctor. The Principal immediately called her and asked her to leave. She was shocked and said that she did not have any appointment. I winked at her and said that she must hve forgotten as we had taken the appointment a week ago. Ha ha ha. She caught on and went along. We went had lunch ina restaurant and then went home to a romantic afternoon and evening.

i usually persuade him to do so.i dress up,make myself look and smell good.its just a matter of charisma.he will definetely leave anything for me whether its a meeting or what.

We are very seldom to have a date since we move here in our new place. We both busy and at the same time we need to budget well our income caused we have 3 kids go for schooling. He will also spending money for his transportation going to work. But we are planning to have a date soon. I'm exited! We have done this too far. Setting a date with our husband is some kind wonderful to flourished our relationship. We need this to add up in our lists of schedule and I believe in this way we avoid some break ups and lessen our worries. We will be a good example also to our children for when they become grown up and have their own family they will recall what their parents did when times get rough.

As he has a job to do, I have no choice but let him be. But of course, I would asked him to promise me that he bring me out on a date as long as he can. If he is always missing on our schedule date, than I will have to take drastic action. KINAPPED HIM!!! No..no.. just kidding - I will asked him to apply for time off and go off for our date without any interruption.

it's really nice to know that you find time to hang out with your spouse. my husband and i have always wanted to spend more time together. we both work and are both busy with so many things that we hardly even have any time anymore. the only time we can actually hang out is on saturdays, which is his only day off. he works in a casino and has changing schedules, and he goes to work even on sundays (bummer) so we dont have a family day. on saturdays, we have to spend time with the kids too so it's really a hectic day as well. i also hope we can get more time off to bond...all couples need that...so goodluck on your date and keep it up!

Hello Nhey16, We are both working and knowing my husband, he is not a kind of man who loves surprise especially when he is busy working. Once a while, I do miss him while I am working and when that happens, I will give him a call and we will have a romantic chat like we did when we were busy courting each other (if he is not busy, if he is then he will tell me to call him back later). My husband is not really a romantic person and he seldom shows how much I mean to him. I, on the other hand, always try to show my love for him and always complain of his unromantic attitude. As usual, he will tell me this "You as my wife should know better than others how much you mean to me!"

You're so lucky. My husband rarely takes the initiative with things like that. He hasn't even called me from work all this week because he's been too busy. He hardly spends enough time with me or the kids. I wanted him to call into work today, but he didn't. I pretty much just have to deal with his hours, and it usually upsets me a lot, because he works far too much. He puts in close to 60 hours a week, doesn't get home until after the kids are in bed, and sometimes doesn't even get a day off. When he is home he doesn't do much, just makes a mess and plays on his computer.

i bet it will be worth the wait. can't do w/out a job, they are sure hard to find around here. have a good time when u do get to go on your date.

Hi Nhey, Oh, to be young again, that is so romantic and I hope you will get your date soon, as for me and my hubby, that is all in the past, he much prefer to go cycling with his mate and I rather be at home here with myLot hehe. Hugs. Tamara

FOR HUSBAND -- he is really sweet to text you like that!!and yeah you two should go out on date and have good time just like old days when you two are just girlfriends boyfriends...i remember my ex when he texted me thank you and i ask him for what and he told me for everything, for loveing him, it just made me cry, i never thought he really would think like that!!

Hi! well,if the schedule of your husband permits,you can have a date now but if he can't make it,you can always look forward for this coming weekends.So romantic heheeh