What would you do if your friend lost your stuff (2)?

China
November 7, 2008 1:05am CST
Hi,mylotters.I posted a discussion about my classmate's situation that her good friend lost her and didn't replace it .Many mylotters post responses to give me advices.Thank you for your responses very much. I told my chassmate these advices.She said to me that she was sure her friend had money beacuse she bought some expensive stuffs last week.When my classmate talksto her about the lost camera,she also say she wish she could replace the camera but she cann't now and the changes the subject.My classmate becomes angry about that and decieded not to spend time with her any more.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
7 Nov 08
hongqistreet, There's an old Kurdish proverb that goes like: "Once a friend; Always a friend." I suppose, this other friend of the both of you is just being unpleasant here. However, as much as what friends are for, ignoring him/her does not mean the end of a friendship. Somehow, I would advise that your friend just accept this erroneous friend as she is and that the both of you would not simply lend her money and things to her anymore. At least, until she has returned and made good her previous obligations. Besides, let her enjoy a short time of freedom and bliss is good too as there will be a good excuse for the both of you to say NO to her the next time she comes around to borrow again. Friends are just humans and as humans we possess both a good and a bad side. All of us will have a bad side and it is during these times, as friends you will still need to stand by each other and together. Who knows one day your faiths might just wake some senses to her and let her change to her new ways. Besides, money can still be earned. A new and better camera can still be bought, it will just be a matter of time. Learn to smile when it hurts most and “May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.” Take care and have a nice day.
• China
7 Nov 08
Hi,skysuccess,thank you for your response.Your words above do make sense.I'll tell my classmate about that later.
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