Why I am not angry about Obama winning....

@ParaTed2k (22940)
Sheboygan, Wisconsin
November 7, 2008 12:16pm CST
I wrote before about a man who assumed that I would cry if Obama won the election. Some here at MyLot wonder why many of us who spoke out passionately against Obama aren't spitting bullets now that he has won. As some of you read, my answer to the man was that I don't base my happiness on who is in the White House. But there is much more to it than that. I've been politically aware since the Carter adminstration. I've lived through all the combinations... republican president/republican congress, republican president/democrat congress, democrat president/democrat congress, democrat president/republican congress... What I've learned from it all... it doesn't make much difference. What I've also seen is the good and the ugly side of people. I've seen people who were normally good natured and friendly become hate-filled and angry. I've seen nornally honest people become blatant liars. All because of who was president. I first saw it among my more liberal friends when Reagan was elected. I never knew anyone could hate someone they didn't know so much. Because they resented the fact that Reagan won, they openly trashed the US. For the first time in my life, I heard Americans (other than scum like Hanoi Jane and her kind of filth) defending the USSR, Cuba and other totalitarian nations. People who I once knew as patriotic, freedom loving Americans had nothing good to say about the US and somehow decided that the people in communist nations and third world countries had it much better. This attitude was turned on its ear when the Berlin Wall came down. All of the sudden, the people who had spent the bulk of the Reagan adminstration defending the Soviet Union and Communism were celebrating their downfall. It was really quite entertaining... but also pathetic. Then Prs. Clinton was elected. Talk about the tables turning. While I didn't hear conservatives or republicans praising other countries, normally patriotic people started hoping and praying for failure in the US. All of the sudden words like "impeach" and even "assassination" didn't sound like national tragedies, but something good. Hate for the nation somehow became a family value. Then George Bush was elected, anger and hate became mainstream. Hatred for the US became so prevalent that foreign leaders who preached hatred of the US were envited to speak at US universities, but republican or conservative Senators, Housemembers or others were banned. Bad news became about the nation became music to some Americans ears. "Patriotism" turned from a positive emotion to a swear word, and then it was turned around. It became Unpatriotic to believe in the US anymore, and "patriotic" to trash her. Disagreement with the president became an excuse to hate the US completely. I refuse to bathe in the satanic mud of that kind of hate. I refuse to allow myself to sell out my country, my family, and my own integrity just to feast on that kind of bile. I was taught that you should never make decisions (especially major ones) when you are angry. Everyone needs to take that advice to heart. I am an American. I am also a Christian, a Mormon, a Wisconsin Army National Guard retired NCO. I am a father, a husband, a brother, a friend, an aquantance, a cyberbuddy and a stranger. I am a gun owner, I drive a Jeep, I teach guitar and run an online store. I have spent most my adult life helping others, but I have also been in the position where I was the helped. All of these things add up to who I am, none of them give me justification to hate my country simply because I am disapointed with the outcome of an election. Disagree, disrespect, oppose, and/or speak out against Prs. Obama all you want! It is just as patriotic to oppose the president as it is to support him. But if your patriotism or love of country has anything to do with whose butt fills the big chair in the Oval Office, I not only question your patriotism, I question your love for anything to do with this country at all. In fact, I question your integrity, your humanity, and your maturity. In fact, if you can't love your country simply because you don't like the president, I consider you a spoiled little brat who is only happy when you are getting your own way. So, all that being said, I am not angry about the outcome of the election. I will not oppose Prs. Obama simply for the sake of opposition. When he does things I agree with, I will support him. When he does things I disagree with, I will oppose him. I will give him credit where I feel credit is due, even if it means that I was wrong. Whatever Prs. Obama does, We are the United States of America. Whatever Congress does, We are the United States of America. It is our United States of American, not George Bush's, not Obama Barack's, nor any other individual's. The US Constitution says "We the People"... "we" isn't an "me, but not you" proposition.
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• United States
7 Nov 08
A lot of so called Christians have the attitude that if their candidate doesn't win, it is a travisity (sp), They will put down the President, and anyone else who does not agree with them. WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! The bible tells us we are to pray for our leaders, not smash them down. So if you don't agree with Obama and his policies, do the best thing you can do, what God says to do, pray for him. Pray for him to have the wisdom, and knowledge needed to run this country, and bring it out of the mess that it is in. Pray for him to make righteous decisions, that will lead this country in a positive way.Most of all pray for his and his families safety, I feel in my heart that is the most important thing at this time. Blessings Marilyn
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
7 Nov 08
Yes, we should always pray for what is best for our nation, not what is most political expedient for our side. Personally, I don't think God thinks much of any negative prayers in the first place.
• United States
7 Nov 08
Finally I hear someone talking sense, and well put! I agree with you. The United States is a democracy and that gives us the right to choose. It doesn't make sense for people to hate this country just because they didn't get their pick of the president. It's about the majority vote and the state of the country doesn't just depend on who is the president at the time, it's about everyone and we need to work together to make this country better.
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@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
7 Nov 08
Talking sense is what we need. I just wonder how many of the people who have been so vile towards Prs. Bush for the last 8 years are going to demand absolute respect for Obama. ;~D
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@Bd200789 (2994)
• United States
7 Nov 08
I agree. I hope other people feel the same. Democrat or Republican, we are all Americans.
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@twallace (2675)
• United States
9 Nov 08
You have your right to your opinion even if there are those that don't agree with you. I know you had something to say and said it. Anything other than that is just someone else blowing off steam. I guess when you make a discussion here in my lot you have to be ready for anything that someone might say against what you have written. You have taken it well and I commend you for that. You didn't blow your top or let it tee you off. That is the good thing you still stayed in control. So you keep writing and let your thoughts be know to all that read.
@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
7 Nov 08
Thanks for being so positive. I have actually been thinking a lot about this. I was wondering if all the people that we so opposed to bad talk about Bush would now stop trying to convince people McCain is the man for the job, and continue trashing Obama. I have a great deal of respect for all of the John McCain supporters of this site that has moved on, yes I know that there are still some here doing the trash talking and it really makes all of you that have moved on look bad. I actually think bad is to nice of a word. Thank you very much all of you that has moved on, I hope that the others will follow suit but, I'm not so sure. You drive a Jeep? I drive a Jeep, maybe we aren't so different after all lol
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• China
8 Nov 08
very appreciate your attitude, we should learn somthing from you. We eaterner adore our leader from ancient time, and even proud to devote life to our leader. time changes now , western culture adron the right of everyone
@missybal (4490)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Well said! I will do as the bible says and pray for my leaders. Bush and Obama included.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
I really like your post. Actually I read it halfway through and already got your point. I really think that America needs more people like you are. There are still Americans that are just not contented with whom the majority voted and respct it as that. Let the voice of your nations be heard and respected by the losers. it is not actually that candidates but the supporters that really is creating havoc as the losing candidate has already conceded but his supporters are continually putting down the candidate who won. Let us stop it now and go on with our lives, There is another one coming in the next 4 years then you may voice out your concerns again.