Why do people love you?

I don't really know the answer to this question. With my family and stuff it's obvious but just with random people you meet throughout life. I think maybe it's because people see that I do my own thing and don't care what they or anybody else thinks so it keeps them interested. Or maybe it's just because I'm so rich and I pay people thousands of dollars to be my friend.

I really do not know. Probably because they have too as they are related to me. I think people probably hate me more. Well I do not care. Love me for who I am, or hate me. I think my kids love me, but they give me abuse somedays. 'A well' thats my kids for you. They are Good kids really. I do not know why my hubby likes me either, as I give him grief sometimes (serves him right though) he getting on my nerves these days. He's on night shift, grumpy and tired. I take none of his sh*t but. Well I do not know why they love me. It must be because I am grumpy old me that they love. (or pretending too). No they do love me really. (I think).

Will all i can say is, no dull moment when I'm a round, my family and my friends likes a lot when I'm around specially when they have a problems, it seem that i look like a clown to them, and some of friends says that I'm a good listener maybe that's the other reason why they want me to stay or maybe the reason why they love me.

H Sheepie, People love people for their personalties and the love of a family is different. Tamara

Huh thats kinda of a strange question Iv never really thought about it much, haha. well I think the reason why people love me is because I accept everyone no matter what race or gender and I have a good since of humor I love to laugh, and have good time and when, most people I meet me they say thats the first thing they notice about me my personality, and I tend to smile a lot even if I might be having a bad day and I really care about people I enjoy meeting new people and chatting with people and I'm fun loving lol well enough about me, its a little strange talking about my self haha!.

I think I know my qualities and why people like being around me and i also think I know my disadvantages which makes people not like me that much. But then again I also know I sometimes think I have some disadvantages which really arent lol if that makes any sense Im smart and witty, and serious and crazy, and funny and boring, Im a mixture of everything and you never know what to expect. I have so many talents even I dont recognize them all and people find that fascinating. But at the same time me being smart and multi talented also scare them. I do know that from the first look people do not like me as I have this posh, cold look about my self...my boyfriend says I look snobby but Im not I just appear like that. But those that really knows me loves me for my funny personality and my kindness.

Well, I know it's not for my money! lol

i think it is because i am caring and giving of myself. i have always been that way and as i get older it gets exhausting always trying to be there for people. my other strong suit is that i am very compassionate and it draws people to me because they know i really care and can relate to them.

hmmm, because im lovable!hahah,kidding aside maybe because i do care for them and think of them all the time!!i give time for them...actually im not really thinking if they love me or not, as long as i love them and respect them, that what matters on me!!especially on my family, i really dont have to ask or question them if they really love me or likewise on my part, cause it comes naturally...happy lotting...

people like me because i am a good listener and i usually pay heed to others' worries and try to provide a suggestion for their problems ...

I don't really know. I guess I just know how to be myself always. I know how to have fun and joke around without hurting anybody's feelings. I also respect the elderly especially my parents. I also know my limitations. Well, people love me maybe because I am simply me.

My family loves me because they don't have any choice LOL, anyway I'm just trying to be good for myself and for the people that surrounds me.

I'm so happy because some people are love me. my parents and my brothers are love me very well.i think it's god gift to me.my friends are allways told me your are my best friend and i love u very much.in that time i feel very happy.

its obvious that everyone loves us because they like us... it bet may be we are enjoyable to look at and fun to be with. and if it comes to such families,it is because you are part of them.they made you brough here down on earth and they wont allow you to be harmed.

I really don't know... I'm a total pain in the butt. I told my husband the other day he's crazy for loving me. I'm un-predicable, quick tempered at times, and very demanding. I don't know how anyone can live with me. My husband says he just loves me for my body!

I do not have a whole lot of people that love me. I think my husband and daughter love me the most because I am always there for them and they know I deserve to be loved also.

I am the same way as you are I have so many friends you would not beleive me I do't my friend says that they all seem to take to me I can't go anywhwere with out somebody knowing me.my aunt told me once to be careful because the bus driver knew me.so I know what you mean I feel like a actress.ha.ha. cd

I am not really sure why. but if I may say, i think it s because I show them I care for them so much. I let them feel that I can be somebody that they could trust. Some people told me that they love my sense of humor and that I am always the life of the party. So i guess they just enjoy bein with me.

Hello sheepie This is a good question. I asked my husband once, and he said that he loved me because of the way I love people. I really care about him even when we have fight. Always forgive him and try to understand. I'm a simple and caring people, even with a person who hurt my feeling so much. Sometimes I really want to hate someone who hurt me but I can't hate them, but I really concern with them and if i heard that they have a trouble, I try to help them. God bless you and thank you *pa_lom4

its all about care... even if u don't love a person and if u try to act like u r caring them, they will love u. that is the magical touch of care!!!