How do you react if

Well I have never had anything that severe I don't think. A few years ago when I was dating a guy from mississippi he had moved to nc for school and then had to go home for a month and I thought I was going to die without him here. When he came home it was a total shocked when he came walking in the door. I couldnt stop looking at him and he asked me why I was looking at him like that. All I could say is that I just missed him and that he looked different. Basically he just just lost ten or fifteen pounds and got an awesome tan. I had tried to not act like that or stare at him but it was hard. I think that the closer we are to the person then the harder it is to not act like you notice it.

Oh yeh it happened to my bf and I was the one who physically changed lol. I usually have long hair till half my back. 2 days before, i went to my hairstylist and I told her i want short hair with a tomboyish look. In the end, I did get my hair cut even though she recommanded me to not choose that style. When I met my boyfriend, he was in total shock. And he asked me what i have done to my hair. It must be uncomfortable for him indeed. However, I'd prefer people to ask me if i was in his shoes. So I woul explain what hapenned and the other person would understand. Next time we would meet, I would feel more comfortable since I told everything. But people react differently. Sometimes, asking is an act of courtesy. In this case, the front teeth is really something important...

it did happenn to me a few days ago,i was playing with my son of 2 years when his head hit my chin and my front teeth broke.i was so conscious and embarrassed as if the whole world was laughing at me.

Yes, a friend of mine has denture. So, we were talking and eating at the same time. Somehow while eating, my friend's denture fell out and off it went to the ground. I was wondering what was it and I saw my friend quickly picking his denture up. I looked at him and there he was with his 4 missing front teeth. I was shocked because I never knew he had denture. I couldn't stand it, I just laughed it out loud because he looked so funny without his front teeth. And by the way, he is kinda cute...with his denture on.lol.

Yes this happens once in awhile. Sometimes people get in a fight and get bruises or fall and get scraped up a bit. Other times people get in horrible accidents and have injuries, burns, scars, and other changes to their appearance. I usually notice but try not to focus on such. I wouldn't want people making a big deal out of it for me, so I try to behave how I would feel comfortable if I were in their situation.

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I don't know. I think it is just human nature. My ex boyfriend had a tooth knocked out after we broke up. He had a partial that he always wears made up. One day he cam eover and didn't have it. I focused on it as well. It's just that we aren't used to seeing them that way. It's a first reaction. I bet it won't happen next time.

I do not know how you did not say anything, I would not have been able to stop looking at his teeth! I don't think I have ever been in a situation like that as I can recall, not to that degree of change anyway!

hahaha!! this is funny!! I can never hold myself but make a comment if there is any change I can see to someone familiar to me. It is really hard not to say anything specially if it is very obvious and surprising. I don't know if there is anybody here who could say, he/she never have any reaction.. hahaha.. Like what you said? I can't help it maybe giggling when somebody has any change like that. I know it is not good but how could we control ourselves? that I do not know how...

I would just look, ask, hear the story and get on with it. Instead of feeling uncomfortable and trying not to look. It is normal to look. If people don't want the attention or whatever they can put something over it or just not go out.

Wow yea that would be a tough one not to laugh at while talking to him. Did you mention anything at all? I think i probably would have said something and simply asked if he was ok or whatever. Obviously someone told him where to stick it being the landlord. LOL.

Ha!ha!ha!thats a funny one, maybe he got beaten at drinking stores, does he drinks? For me it happen mostly after some functions or maybe if there was a party and even most of those people i see them on the 1st of january because the night before when they were partying, they would fight and endup with someone loosing their teeth or having scares on their faces. Besided those things i never met anyone who would just change...like in the middle of nowhere[b][/b]

Yes, I guess. In my high school days, one of my friends had their jaw broken on purpose to make their face look better through surgery. We all knew she looked fine but it was her decision and respected it. Now when she returned to school, her cheeks were puffed out really bad for about a month. It was really tough to look her straight in the face and talk to her because that is all your eyes kept looking at. I think you can't avoid it but just try not to make the person feel bad.

Wow that would be hard to miss! I know that one of my husbands former co-workers had very very long hair. Then the next time that I seen her she had all of her chopped off to the point it was shorter than her ears! I could not believe it, I tried hard not to laugh, because she looked quite funny. I did manage to get out a comment of nice new look and such, but it was very hard not to stare because all the hair was chopped off!

you can make him feel better,and comfortable,when you are kind to him.because when someone makes some accident,you laugh at him,making him unhappy,he will hate you and search some chance to make you sad.it is true that you respect someone,he will respect you too.....

No not really. I man it is still the same person so why should I react differently to him if there is something new about him. Sure I might ask a question or two about it but I still know the person.

one of my friends I met in the first week of high school came in one day with a huge pimple on his fore head lol he never gets pimples tho so I was like wtf

Seeing some one look differently only after a few days happens alot here.. I just try to ignore it if I think that me saying something will offend them