Will i be insane to tell you that i love you if we chat online????
By loxion
@loxion (1553)
India
November 9, 2008 12:01am CST
As the heading say, i mean i meet really nice people online of which later we make phone calls to communicate with each other and some of them are really smart and welcome me
But i find it hard to tell one of them that "i love you" because for me it would sound as if i'm insane or maybe afraid to visit them and tell them face to face that i love them.
Most of those i meet are somehow from far from where i live and visiting them become a bit of a hussle for me, but at the same time i feel like i want to tell them that i love them but tell them while we chat online is difficult for me
Now if i chat online with someone that i really love and tell them or express how i feel about them, will that sound like i'm insane?
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7 responses
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
10 Nov 08
you wouldn't be in sane in a degree. it's a personal choice. i've been caught out, was lied to by a male. who orginally told me he was only 27 but turned out to be 54. yuck. this was 10 yrs ago as well. it's along story. but he said he loved me but i didn't love him in that way only as a friend and someone to talk to.
i would like to meet some of the people i've met online if i was ever near where they lived.
must move thou got to get my son from school.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
10 Nov 08
i know there is a lot of online dating, i've also seen it break a marriage. the woman was hooked on chat lines, she lied about her looks and a few other things. then wondered why when she met one of the blokes he didn't like her that much. i then read in a mens mag not long after someone had written in and they had lied about looks etc, and were nervous about the bloke not likely them. the answer in the mag was if he runs it your own fault. there was no symponhy in the reply.
web cam would be a great idea, on the fact you can see the person. and judge from there.
it's ashame that there are so many people out there who are lieing about age, etc. cause one bad experience can turn people off chat and other things on the net.
@loxion (1553)
• India
10 Nov 08
I think is crazy, i mean how can you lie about your age, after all that cannot chage anything, what will happen if you find that the other person was serious about, what would you say? sorry?. and what i've discored again is the fact that most people like to be young, meaning if someone is 25 then they would say they are 20 or 19.
I once met someone and it happen that i go to her place unexpectetly, we were partying with friends and they decided to go party there at the other friend's home, and when i was there i decided to phone her and to tell that she lied about everything, the photo, the age and her status of marriage. and i just told her that is okay you may come and see me i do not have problem with that, to her shame she never came and said she was too ashamed about it
@loxion (1553)
• India
10 Nov 08
I think the age cheats is one of the problems when it comes to onlne dating, i mean most people would lie rather than the honest truth and only to find that the person on the other side was serious about the relationship and when they find out...all hell brake loose
I also believe that most of people who lie about their age are us men, simply because most people who are involved with dating vhatrooms are young people from age 15.
But i think you can always tell when someone is old, when they send you their photo or when you talk to them on a webcam or even a phone call
@navas4u (185)
• India
14 Nov 08
Just tell her that you love her.And it will give both of you a chance to discuss about the things in common.And each others like and dislikes.And continue the realationship.And if at any point of your realtionship if you feel like marrying her , then tell her.And discuss the possibilities.It is that simple!
Anyway discussion about marriage is ok.But be very careful when you take a decision on marriage.because that is not a child's play.Before marriage you should meet in person with her and discuss the matter with your family if neccessary.
In short, find chating just as a technolgy which help you to communicate easily and openely.All other things must be according to your culture and customs.
@navas4u (185)
• India
15 Nov 08
Yes dear,Don't go too far just thinking.Especially for such things.Don't be too late.That may miss you a chance.Don't be afried about the answer.Just ask her.Atleast you can get their attittude in the subject-right?
So, do it..Now, or Never!
Take your phone now!And tell her what you feel about her.Do it wholeheartedly.It will work,I'm sure!
@maple_kisses (2156)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
If you really love someone, why would it sound insane to tell her what you feel? I have two online relationships before (not in the same time ok? 
). Guys who tell me they love me, guys whom I really come to love seriously. It didn't seem feel insane to tell them how I feel because what I'm telling them is true. So go for it loxion, time is running so fast, you might not have enough time to tell the one you love how much she meant to you. Good luck!
). Guys who tell me they love me, guys whom I really come to love seriously. It didn't seem feel insane to tell them how I feel because what I'm telling them is true. So go for it loxion, time is running so fast, you might not have enough time to tell the one you love how much she meant to you. Good luck!@maple_kisses (2156)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
Me? Lucky? 
My most recent heartbreak was because of a man I met online and I also had a boyfriend for 2 years online who broke my heart. I wasn't lucky, I was just stupid to believe everything a man says, hahaha! You're right though, there are lots of liars online. While I do everything to be myself, post my real picture, say my real status, say my real feelings, others seem not to care and just go on and hurt you at the end. But oh well, I am an honest person and I don't regret that. I always say the truth about me, and if a guy can't live with that, he's not worth my hard work. 
My most recent heartbreak was because of a man I met online and I also had a boyfriend for 2 years online who broke my heart. I wasn't lucky, I was just stupid to believe everything a man says, hahaha! You're right though, there are lots of liars online. While I do everything to be myself, post my real picture, say my real status, say my real feelings, others seem not to care and just go on and hurt you at the end. But oh well, I am an honest person and I don't regret that. I always say the truth about me, and if a guy can't live with that, he's not worth my hard work. @loxion (1553)
• India
13 Nov 08
I'll take your word for it, but what about the fact that high percentage of them give out wrong information? because i've just realised now that most people give wrong information when it comes to their age, where they live or their identity in general?
I have to say you have been lucky not to meet some freakz online, do you still live with someone you met online?
@karamellized (680)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
This is funny because I am skeptical that it is love that you feel with someone whom you have chatted online just for a short span of time. Anyways, I am just wondering why use Love when I think you can say, you make me smile and you excite me.
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
14 Nov 08
how well do you know this person? have you ever met them before? that is some thing to consider.no ofense to you i am only trying to help .i like to talk to all of you but if i never met you and dont know you well i would be scared if you told me you loved me so just be careful. take care
@loxion (1553)
• India
14 Nov 08
I never met her in person, i only met her online as i said, but i think she is true on most of the things she tells me.We contact each other trough phone calls and obviously chating online
I am always taking careful actions on everything i do, especially things like this, but now this lady sounds to be true and i feel inlove with her,but at the same time i feel like it will be insane if i tell her online or via phone call
She live a little bit far from where i live and i feel like i will cannot visit her any time soon
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
14 Nov 08
maybe you can let her know you would like to meet her in person and explain that you are afraid that you will not be able to do this anytime soon.maybe she will come to see you.maybe that is all she is waiting for is the ok.
@anshumanbardhan (13)
• India
10 Nov 08
LOVE IS MEANT TO BE EXPRESSED. The means of communication that we have today are after all only a means to express ones feelings. So, if you are sure enough about your feelings then you can express it whether it is through an online chat or in person.
@LordPinhead (61)
• Germany
9 Nov 08
What insanity? I met my girl online, told her that I love her online, aked her to become my wife online. She accepted!
A visit won't be easy, there are 11 000 km between us...
@loxion (1553)
• India
9 Nov 08
Wow i wish i could say that to the lady i love, but i find it difficult to tell her, i feel like i have to be close or face to face with her for her to believe that i truly mean what i say. So far i just can't say it, even though she's welcome to talk about anything but i find it difficult to tell her
