Do you take responsibilities of your failures with ease and rightaway?

Maybe not with ease mimpi but I do try to confront any failures I have made in life head on and with the same attention I give to my successes. If I don't do this and "pass the buck" so to speak; then how can I possibly learn from these mistakes to ensure I don't make them anymore? It DOES require great strength to confront, accept and overcome mistakes in life, but we do end up wiser and more liberated as a result just as you have said. The only way to move on from a failure is to learn from it and put it to rest. We can't do that if we don't acknowledge and face it! Many people have the mindset that if we ignore something then it will go away. This may be true for some situations but it is not for something like this.

By nature I always hate passing the buck and arguments.I can point someone for my failure easily but I cannot satisfy my conscience which knows that it is only I that have failed miserably.I like to take responsibility for my failures, learn from them and march towards success always rather than living with a tormented soul.I am never egoistic.

Hi Mou i dont know much about others, but i am incharge of one of small dept in my factory, and sure lot of work passes through our department and instyructions as well. If somehow something Went Wrong, I admitt it and take responsibilty as a incharge. I believe its best way to correct it. The same thing i convey to my colleagues that if something went wrong, no need to get scared or hide it, but tell me immediately, as i might not be able to stop it 100% , but atleast can try to minimine the effect or loss. Errors are human nature, i dont mind them, but hiding them and delaying information about is "big crime" to me as by this u make another mistake and loose chance to overcome it or reverse It Take care

Hi there! I have been a strong woman even when I was a kid. I am always responsible of my actions and I never blame anyone of my failure. I have failed so many times in my lifetime and yet still I keep standing. Some of them my parents never even knew about. I don't know. My aunt said once that the more I cry the more I become stronger. There were times I cry for my failures but just to let the bad feeling out of my chest and then I stop and never cry on it again. I try to learn from my mistakes. Not promising not to do it again but always to be reminded of it and make the right decisions if I get to experience the same situations again. Weird, but I am proud of my failures cause it made me who I am today. Ciao!

Hi mimpi! I do take responsibility of my failures although its not always easy to accept it, but I guess I can learn from it and to become a wiser person, like you have said. Thanks dear.

I take my failer pretty well. Occasionally though i do get angry

It does not come with equal ease Mimpi,atleast in my experiences. Accepting the responsibility and be ready to face the consequences of them do indeed require a lot of strength. The mental barrier once broken though ,makes it a little easier. And it does bring about the poise and the peace of mind. It has in my case once i learnt to accept the responsibility. But there is something that i must add here. The poise comes about not only with the acceptance but the actions and emotions which follow it. What i mean here, is that acceptance of the responsibility does bring about certain feelings and emotions of shame,guilt and sadness, and having control of these emotions and using the lessons learnt with rightful action to follow is what finally will make us wiser and liberated.

it is easier said than done.in the beginning when i was i used to try to pass on the mistakes on someone else but now i have learnt to accept failures gracefully.to err is human.......

The way I see it that it is rare to find success without some sort of failure preceding it. Success and failure depend on each other, for how would you know if you have succeeded at something if you didn't know failure? If I feel I have failed at something, providing I know that success if possible, I keep digging away at it. I may spend less time with it, but I never fully give up on anything really. If someone else has succeeded, then it is possible for me to do so also. :-)

What failures?!!!!! LOL. All of life is a learning experience and when we do our best, we have no failures. I do not play the blame game with others and certainly not with myself. If at first I don't succeed, I try again, but I don't consider the first try a failure...a stepping stone, perhaps, but not a failure. Brave enough not to do anything foolhardy, I hope.

I take failures easily actually especially when I know I am at fault and also I have this tendency to accept other's fault as well. But on the rare occasion that I do believe that it was not my fault and was wrongly accused of it Id be truly stubborn, present my case, and defend my stand. Same as in achievements. I usually just brush it off and not make a big deal out of it but if its something that I truly worked hard for and feel that I do deserve it after the hard work, Id be happy about it and share it with the world. I just dont brag about it.

Unfortunately, I don't. Pride and denial set in right away. I would say I always have a very difficult time during transitions in life. At first, if things don't go the way I want, everything is to blame but me. But when I finally get to that point of accepting that it was all my fault, then I tend to be even more harsh with myself than I am with those that I blamed before. And then I look back and reflect what just happened. Sadly, I just can't seem to learn from all these experiences.

Hello Mimpi....congratulations..I see you have just crossed the 6000 mark........Good going dear............ Well when it comes to taking responsiblity for failures,I can even enter the guinness book of records......well the fact is in my home,when ever there is a crisis or a problem my hubby and sons all gang up pretend that they are not aware of it.I immediately volunteer to take up responsiblity (unmindful of the fact that I am the minority here...he..he..)....and say that I have been responsible,now why dont you guys solve it or fix it up or what ever.......then they sheepishly yield and sort things out......Sometimes You have to try out all tricks of the trade to get the required results.Mimpi dear........

Af for this problenm, how to do it, it stands for one's life attitude,besides, where he or she take responsibility of herself or himself. It is very common that mose of persons always escape from wrongdoings and failure, for they do not dare to face the realistic state,why? Maybe for their benefit, maybe for their lover, maybe their job.... without enough courage to take charge of it.

Yes I do.A person should own up for everything that they do in life, good and bad,success and failure.!!!!LOL!!!!

Everyone makes mistakes and therefore should be able to own up to their mistakes. I try to accept responsibility for my mistakes and will look even further if I feel someone has accused me wrongfully. If I feel I was wrong I will admit it but if I wasn't I will be sure to let that person know as well. I try to instill the same in my children and just hope they learn from it.

I must confess its not very easy to take the ownership of failures. atleast I am not so much great. but If I think I am really responsible, i take ownership.

I wouldn't consider taking responsibility for my own faults...as brave. So what if I'm imperfect and how I'm imperfect smarts? I'm me, and I can't pretend I'm anything else (that'd be encouraging delusions, on my part!). Not to say it's easy! But... I can take it in stride and not miss a beat, but that doesn't ean there's not an internal battle going on. it's just as hard, for me, to accept achievements. I have a hard time believing in my own good luck, sometimes.

Hi frnds, I will responsibilitys of my failures.Some times i will do a wrong things in wrong decision i will accept my mistake later than rectify my problems and failures. Always accept our failures when we did a wrong one and take as responsbility to solve our problems.The failures are the stepping stone to the success. And be a honest,strengthness. Be happy and have a nice

well I have to be honest on this one. I am not brave enough. there. Its out now. I generally avoid taking responsibility unless it is very clear that I am in the wrong. working on it but just not brave enough